i am so scared

[Inguc_is]

my mom are going to hard times… all the time she get carbo and taxol till she didnt have shock to carbo and they start give hee doxil… red devil which made her so ill after first chemo she get lower stomack blockage and surgery to replace it… that uclers and in october trombs in legs …seems that it didnt work at all but doctor give and give it… now she was in hospital for blood transfusion and get covid stayed there 10 days, last month she had problem again with stomach she aslo said it in hospital but they said u had surgery it can be like this… she is eating small amounts but sometimes ( every day almost) on evening after she eat and than drink something up.. 1-2 hours later she vomit bile.. also if she only drink something she vomit bile. Solid food go down but water not!? Do anyone have such?

[Eriksendi]

I am so sorry to hear that your mum is poorly at the moment and struggling with her symptoms. I am no medical expert but can say that I have had multiple stomach /bowel issues since my diagnosis and surgery for adhesions, including hospital stays for obstructions. In my case it took a while for the bowel to settle after surgery so that can be the case. I would urge you to seek medical attention and advice for your mum if she is struggling. Sending love and hugs and hoping that she soon improves.

[Inguc_is in reply to Eriksendi]

Surgery was in july, but bile reflux starts some weeks ago, she is going to toilet 2-3 times a day… it looks like with bowels all are ok?

[SopSinger]

Vomiting bile is not normal. Please call her chemo team asap. If they can't help, call 111 and they can get her fast tracked to A & E.

[Inguc_is]

she just came from hospital some days ago out, they said can be bile reflux after july chemo

[AuntyOrange]

I am so sorry that you are so scared. But I'm worried that you are passing this fear on to your mum. She needs to feel as confident as possible with her medical team while she is going through this horrible time. Am I wrong in assuming that English is not your first language. If this is true, then are you getting enough interpretation help? Understanding all of the information that the medical people give you is hard even when English is your first language. If you don't feel that your mum is getting enough support, you have the right to a 2nd or even 3rd opinion. I think if you feel confident with the treatment then she also might start to feel a bit better. Fear and stress can cause a lot of physical problems too but first they will have to work on her vomiting issues and make her more comfortable. I am sending lots of big hugs to you both. XXXX

[Inguc_is in reply to AuntyOrange]

She is almost ok exept this bile vomit… but it is not all the time … i dont understand what can help you, think only chemotherapy which they dont want to give her, yes we are from Latvia

[AuntyOrange]

So if she is having her treatment in Latvia then the language is not a problem. That is good.Some people do get sick from chemo but it usually settles down when the chemo stops. Some people get sick from issues related to the operation. That was me. Not exactly the same as your mum but I have had ongoing stomach issues for years that relate to the operations I have had. Keep talking to her medical team if her stomach issues do not settle down soon. Try to keep calm. You need to stay strong for her. And make sure that you are getting the support you need too. It is a hard job taking care of the people yo love. xx

[Inguc_is in reply to AuntyOrange]

thank you, yes i am so tired from stress…

[Pumpkininja]

Dear Inguc_is , I never had such experience.Hope your mother gets well soon.Sending you good vibes and warm regards.

[Inguc_is in reply to Pumpkininja]

I hope so:((