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Green light to South Africa!

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Mrs_Atko
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Hello lovely ladies

Following on from my call from my Oncologist last week, I saw her this afternoon. I took a list of questions the length of my arm with me and methodically went through each one (which I didn't do last time!). Anyway, she re-confirmed that everything had come back clear. I asked her how the tumour was initially removed by my first gynae surgeon (because for that op back in June, we didn't know what we were dealing with as it was merely a suspected large ovarian cyst). I asked, because had it been ruptured 'in situ' before being removed, that could have proved problematic. But, apparently, my first gynae had the nowse to pop it in a surgical bag before rupturing/removing it...had he not have done this, I would be looking at a minimum stage 1c (and thus, needing chemo).

Now...I don't know if this is all standard practice, but I almost feel like writing to my first gynae to thank him explicitly for being so cautious! Had he not have been, I may have been looking at a VERY different outcome altogether.

Anyway - she settled all of my worries about just 'being discharged' after 6 months and sent on my merry way. She very much gave me the confidence that I will never just be left dangling and that i have a direct route straight back to her at any time i want/need. Same goes for future scans...she would firstly be reviewing them herself as well as a properly trained radiographer (who knew what they were looking for based on my set of circumstances). Yes, we don't quite know if/when this might return, but I at least feel like i have been given all the relevant info to arm myself, should it rear its ugly head.

So, i'm booked in to see her in 6 months time, and until then, it's GO GO GO to South Africa this time next week! WOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

To celebrate (again) i've celebrated with sausage, egg and chips for tea! Sometimes, it really is the simple things in life :)

Thank you again ladies for all your help and support over these last few months...I'll be sure to post some safari pictures with a big two fingers stuck up to the big 'C'!!

Jemima xx

p.s. had my hair done yesterday...first time since after my first op....gosh it felt good! Hadn't appreciated how all the anaesthetics/drugs had made me look (and feel) so drab!!

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pishi1 profile image
pishi1

Very happy to hear your news. Now go and have some fun. Have a lovely time. Angela x

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply topishi1

Thanks Hun...I intend to ☺️ Xx

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doodoolatrice

mmmm sausage, eggs and chips, sounds delish. Have a wonderful time in South Africa, you deserve it and I'm loving the hair, very glam, Kerry xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply todoodoolatrice

It was delish!! πŸ˜‹πŸ˜€ thanks Hun...appreciate it xx

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Yoshbosh

So, so happy for you! Have a fabulous holiday xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toYoshbosh

Thanks Yosh...I intend to!! 😘😘

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knoxie42

go chase those lions xxxxx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toknoxie42

Absolutely what I intend to do ☺️ Thanks knoxie xx

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Alikay

I'm so pleased for you Jemima. Have a fab holiday. Xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toAlikay

Thanks Ali, appreciate it xx

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HogwartsDK

Woohoo Mrs A! Looking Fab! Have a fab holiday!!

Dx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toHogwartsDK

Thanks D 😘 I'll do my very best!! Look after yourself xx

Yes its the simple things in life that make us happy, great news and have a great holiday,

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply to

Thanks Hun...take care xx

Lyndy profile image
Lyndy

We want a postcard please! Xx L

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toLyndy

Thanks L...will do my very best! ☺️ Xx

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Millie-c

Have a great time, and yes take some lovely pics. Xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toMillie-c

Thanks Hun & I will, don't worry! Xx

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Dollysmum

Fantastic news Jemima.

You have the most wonderful time,

Debs xxx

PS: You look gorgeous. xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toDollysmum

Thanks hunny 😘😘

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IrishMollyO

Jemima

What a fantastic post and one we all aspire to. I am so happy for you. You look fabulous and as you say . SA here you come ! It's obvious you had a brilliant team looking after you. Hope we hear from you now and then with a description of your latest adventure , Take care and safe journey

XXX

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toIrishMollyO

Thanks Molly...there's no getting rid of me ☺️ Xx

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Katmal-UK

Have a great time, you deserve it ! xx Kathy

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toKatmal-UK

Thanks Kathy...look after yourself xx

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ellseybellsey

Fantastic news go on holiday and enjoy yourself.

Ellsey xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toellseybellsey

Thank you Ellsey xx

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Howick01

Great news-please say hello to my lovely home country xxx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toHowick01

I will do lovely lady xx

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Howick01β€’ in reply toMrs_Atko

Hope you insured with insurance with -they were the best for going to SA. X

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toHowick01

Covered by existing insurer Aviva as booked & paid for this trip & others before all this OC nonsense began πŸ‘πŸ» but thanks x

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Sunfleury-UKβ€’ in reply toMrs_Atko

Do double check as you may find that any recent medical stuff needs to be declared.... insurance companies can be sneaky buggers!! ;-) This is such fabulous news and you look great!! Keep on celebrating lovely! :-) xxxx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toSunfleury-UK

I did already πŸ™‚ (I'm in the financial world so it's kinda my thing!)

All disclosed...all covered...letter confirming I'm fit to travel in the post too! πŸ˜‡ Xx

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Sunfleury-UKβ€’ in reply toMrs_Atko

Excellent- lots of us find post diagnosis travel insurance a bit of a tricky thing so am delighted you're all over it!!!!! (& obviously not all who work in insurance are sneaky buggers... ;-) ) xxx

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Marianna

Good luck and have an amazing time. Hope you are "free" of OC for the long haul.

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toMarianna

Thanks Marianna...appreciate it xx

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angelina

Have a fab holiday ...... love your hair

πŸ¦πŸ™ŠπŸ― xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toangelina

Thanks angelina πŸ’ Xx

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Caroles1

Looking good girl! Glad for all your good news,I've heard South Africa is amazing,so have a fab time and forget all that has happened,you have a bright future

Carole xxx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toCaroles1

Thank you Carole...appreciate it xx

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Gleedy

You look amazing. Amazing news and you've guessed it have an amazing hoiday xx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toGleedy

Thanks Gleedy 😘😘

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Decca4Ever

V glad that you're recovering so well and that your results have been confirmed as a Mucinous Borderline Tumour.

Just to reassure others with the same diagnosis... I had a 22cm MBOT removed 2 years ago. Also 1c. My surgeon told me I was 'cured by surgery'. He doesn't consider Borderline tumours as cancer. The cells are abnormal but different from ovarian cancer. Mine was 1c because part of the tumour did rupture - it was huge with a sister cyst the size of a grapefruit, floating somewhere up by my midriff. Impossible to remove without leakage.

But even so, there was no question of chemo. It doesn't work very well because Borderline cells grow so slowly and you'd need high doses which would kill off normal cells. I just have phased out monitoring, u/s and a Ca 125. Now down to annual check-ups.

I'm post-menopausal, so they would probably monitor a younger woman who's had conservative surgery more closely. And still very scary, but not as bad as it might have been.

Just in case anyone is worrying because their tumour wasn't removed intact...

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toDecca4Ever

Thanks for your response Decca...I'm sorry to hear you've been through something similar. Your story (& treatment) were interesting to read. I hope you remain clear ☺️ Xx

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Decca4Everβ€’ in reply toMrs_Atko

Same to you! It's good to meet another MBOT. There aren't v many of us. Around 2 in 100,000. Perhaps you should buy a lottery ticket!

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toDecca4Ever

πŸ˜‚ perhaps I should!! Aren't we the "special ones" ☺️ xx

Wow what fantastic news. You must be estactic! What a wonderful detail feeling to be going away with.

It's lovely also to hear how wonderful and positive your team have been.

Have a fantastic time and stay healthy. X

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply to

Thank you Alf xx

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January-2016-UK

Good haircut. Enjoy South Africa! Looking forward to seeing some pics.

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toJanuary-2016-UK

Thank Hun xx

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Microbabe

Jemima you look amazing. Wow what good news.wish my surgeon had put mine in a bag and then I would not be sat here having chemo lol. I'm 1c after saying that I guess my cyst was too big weighed 6lb eeeek at least it's out now. Sooooo pleased for you enjoy your hols you deserve it πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»

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HogwartsDKβ€’ in reply toMicrobabe

That's funny Shelly! I was stage 1 too but I never asked whether it was a or c! I had a laparoscopic procedure and had read that it was standard that they would put the cyst in a bag when removing it, mine was big too it was 16cm so I just assumed that it was put in the bag and didn't ask. The reason my consultant advised me to have chemo was that the cells they found in the cyst were grade 3/high grade and that was the reason why chemo was recommended! Anyway when people ask I say I was stage 1 and don't add an a or a c!!!

Hope you are well!

Dx

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toHogwartsDK

D, I just assumed my first gynae just poked it 'in situ' & sucked out the contents (spilling some in the process) before retrieving the 'casing' as that was what I'd read how they do it. That's what my onco thought initially too but when she spoke to first gynae, he confirmed he'd put it in a bag...otherwise it would be 1c not 1a...

J xx

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Microbabeβ€’ in reply toMrs_Atko

That's really great πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒx

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Microbabeβ€’ in reply toHogwartsDK

Thank D... I'm doing ok although found out today I have low magnesium πŸ˜–.. I was advised to have chemo because it was clear cell carcinoma which I've been told has high rate of recurrence ... Think having chemo gives us the best possible chance of beating this little sucker!! 😍

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toMicrobabe

Interesting Shelly...mine weighed 1kg & was 15cm. I don't know what is & isn't standard practice when it comes to 'cyst removal'...

But thank you! SA here I come! Xx

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Jen85

Wonderful news! Have fun in SA! X

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply toJen85

Thanks Jen...hope you're well? Xx

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Jen85β€’ in reply toMrs_Atko

Yes good thanks. Back at work and feeling good, although occasionally sore if I push myself. First appointment at the fertility clinic next week, fingers crossed! Enjoy SA, we are off there in Feb B-) x

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tamaramatei

You are so beautiful! Enjoy every moment of your holiday and hopefully, when you get back, you will forget all the difficulties you have been through and will leave behind your worries and anxieties. Best wishes.

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Mrs_Atkoβ€’ in reply totamaramatei

Thanks Hun...can't wait to get away now!! Lots to celebrate & look forward to ☺️ Xx

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