still here just

well still going three day feeling ok to be honest few craves but not using anything so thought it would be much harder.Mr Linda is using patches but not doing much good because he is in really bad mood and i know he is having sneakys. Dont know weather to tell him I know or not. Well off to do a job before i take son to appointment speak later Linda xxxxxxxx

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  • Focus on yourself today Linda x x x x

    Good luck with the meeting x x

    Just leave hubby to it, if you say something it may start something else and right now you just need to look after yourself x x x x

    Stay strong! so pleased to see you here on Day 3 x x x x x x x x

    Great quit date :D remember remember the 5th of November ;)

    ~Buffy x x

  • Hey Linda,

    Well done!! Keep up the good work. I agree with Buffy and just leave hubby to his own thing right now and just focus on yourself.

    You can do it xx

  • Doing great Linda. We're all with you.

  • Hang in there Linda. I know you have alot of personal things going on. I can understand how hard it is to fall back to smoking when things are tough.. I have done it too many times. Keep it up.

  • Hang in there linda u are doing great!!, let us know how u got on today with your son, hope evrything went well and u are ok!

    thinkin of you, luv charlene. :)http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:-PJzsPc2Sls3LM:http://www.classyflowers.co.uk/images/adorable-pink-flowers.bmp

  • Thank you all for your lovely posts. Your right not saying a word to Mr Linda will just cause row that i dont need. Son went to appointment didnt say much when he came out but did say he is going again. So really went well cos after the weekend thought he may not turn up His girl friend came with us when we was waiting for him she told me he has had a few fits over the last few days but he didnt want me to know. Anyway about me HEHE still doing ok some hairy moments but not to bad stopped taking my hrt last week but flushes are getting to much so startted taking them again today. Hope they dont take long to kick in forgot how bad they are HEHE age thing. love linda xxxxx

  • Morning all

    Well day 4 Still feel ok so far so good Mr linda is in a better mood today and dont think he has smoked so hopefully he had second thoughts with out my input HEHE.

    Started taking my hrt again last night between the flushes and the craves only sleeping for 40 mins at a time all night. Off to work again now speak later Love to all Linda xxxxxxxxxx

  • Glad to see you still here through all the haze :D hehe

    Glad your son went well at the counselor x x

    If he drinks he'll continue to fit simple as that! I know 2 alcoholics who got epilepsy through drinking, one is dry now and hasn't had a fit in years, he Just married his long term love too, is all very sweet they have been together many years and have 5 kids together. She was a pillar of strength to him through those awful drinking days x x

    Stay strong x x

    ~Buffy x xx

  • Glad to see you still here through all the haze :D hehe

    Glad your son went well at the counselor x x

    If he drinks he'll continue to fit simple as that! I know 2 alcoholics who got epilepsy through drinking, one is dry now and hasn't had a fit in years, he Just married his long term love too, is all very sweet they have been together many years and have 5 kids together. She was a pillar of strength to him through those awful drinking days x x

    Stay strong x x

    ~Buffy x xx

    Thats lovely Buffy! it just goes to show that no matter how low u go, u can still always turn things around! :)

    Good Luck with day 4 Linda hope its a good one for u! :)

  • Ah yes thanks charlene, tis true, they really are the sweetest people too, he has always been so lovely underneath his addiction. Now he feels like he has a new chance at life.

  • Lovely story

    Give so much hope when you hear about life after when they are in recovery. Hes got every thing he needs to turn his life around just needs to get his head to want it. Anyway said hes coming to AA when i go to my meeting for (familys of) tonite. Linda xxxxxx

  • Linda,

    Your son is lucky to have family and people who care. In then end its up to him but without support it would be much harder. I have great respect for your efforts and I know how hard it is to watch loved ones hurt themselves. Keep at it and keep strong.

  • Yes I agree x x x x x

    Linda your supermum x x I would be proud to call you my mum x x

    Hope tonight goes well, well done staying strong

    ~Buffy x x

  • I would be proud to be both your mums. You are two very Very Lovely Girls Linda xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • I would be proud to be both your mums. You are two very Very Lovely Girls Linda xxxxxxxxxxxx

    :o Aw thanks x x x x x x x x

  • Hi Linda,

    I apologize for butting into this thread, but please...

    I would be proud to be both your mums. You are two very Very Lovely Girls Linda xxxxxxxxxxxx

    Now I was speaking to Boudee yesterday on a thread and you might want to re-think your statement... Lovely, Maybe! But I think there may be an element of rudeness there also :D

    And I believe I read a thread not so long ago where Buffy was involved in some rude play on words with Boudee.

    Obviously I didn't understand what was being said, and I am only assuming that the things said may have been naughty!!!

    Where's that damn duster and my halo gone now... :D

  • I know but they are still lovely girls just a little bit rude and very very funny and thats what we all need

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