I am feeling judged and pressure of others opinions to have a child. I am still awaiting to see the fertility clinic but recently saw the gp for a totally different matter. She judged me so much for wanting to wait for a year and said I may not be able to have a child after. Also having a child will give meaning. Is really women's meaning just children? Again someone who mentors me also was pushing me to pregnancy. I'm strong and could cope with it when l have bearly had 2 years post cancer of a life. Obviously it depends on what the fertility say but why is having a child so much about others opinion on what you should do or not?