Mum

Mum said can live with me but not brother and his family - she said would rather die than live with them. What she told me was not something I understood because she mainly talks to my brother but his family she does not get on with. Difference between my love is unconditional but brother always expects something

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Foggy I would have hated living with any of my Family, Siblings or even Relatives or In-Laws. However my Mother in Law was a jewel of Mothers in Law.

I would need my freedom and be able to hide from them if and when the need arose. Personally I feel there comes a time in Life where we need our own space and living with family would drive me witless.

We have our own ways and hobbies where we are able to relax, additional family would just disturb the peace and quiet.

I wish you well with the decision you are going to make, whatever you decide.

BOB

[hypercat54]

You have answered your own question. Unconditional love is the best kind and the only one worth having.

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I know how you feel, I was walking around the village with my fly down. Was asked if someone had died, Half Mast. We do strange things that are harmless really as we age. That is possibly what happens when an old Man wares old trousers Lol Although not weird. I suppose people will make an exception when some one is getting on a bit Lol

BOB

[Laykonyde]

Your mum aint happy living with her son even though she talks to your brother but not his fam.

Its interesting. Have u asked her why she doesnt wanna live with them? Did they hurt her in the past, are they annoying?.

My mum wouldnt live with one of my brothers and his wife just because they are very childish. They never stop blaming each other's parents when they fall out. They both dont like each other's parents in law. 2 big bairns cant seem to like each other's family!

Very childish!!