Confused and lonely

[Shilpa08]

Hello all sorry my phone got damaged and due to lockdown it couldn’t be fixed finally got fixed how is everything and everyone I finally went to counsellor she said I have borderline personality disprder

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Are you still with your husband or have you moved on?

[Shilpa08 in reply to Hidden]

Still with him not that easy went to my house for 10-12 days

[Hidden in reply to Shilpa08]

Do you feel counselling has helped you and your relationships - is it better?

[Shilpa08 in reply to Hidden]

Due to lockdown counselling didn’t happen and relationship is not better I am still confused what I want in life

[Hidden in reply to Shilpa08]

There are Pros and Cons to the situation and it is up to you in the end - you have to rely and understand yourself, better

[Shilpa08 in reply to Hidden]

This is so difficult but everyday I can’t be sad here and struggle I am so confused can’t decide what to do

[Hidden in reply to Shilpa08]

First, sort yourself out and then concentrate on the relationship or not

[Shilpa08 in reply to Hidden]

Yeah u r right that’s the issue but for that also I need to know where I have to stay or go

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Having a diagnosis is a huge first step in moving forward. Congratulations on seeking help.

[Shilpa08 in reply to Hidden]

Thnx a lot dear

[c-mac]

You can do teletherapy, right? I think therapy is supposed to be very helpful for borderline personality disorder.

[c-mac in reply to c-mac]

And, glad you're okay!

[Shilpa08]

Due to lockdown it’s not possible

[hypercat54 in reply to Shilpa08]

Teletherapy means doing it online or on the phone so the lockdown won't affect it.

[Dolphin14 in reply to Shilpa08]

I do therapy on line. Most therapists and MD are seeing their patients this way now.