Feeling lonely and have lost interest in everything

[Lisa_26]

Hii everyone..I am 30 years old..I am losing interest in everything..my husband doesn't understand what am going through even though I have explained him several times..I feel lonely..am trying to get concieve since 3 years but failed..frequent mood swings ...sometimes I feel Like to end my life😭

[dougal2]

It's always hard for partner to understand unless they have had to deal with it. My wife is same when I explain she finds it hard to understand. Luckily good friend has had same as me so I talk to him

[Ctho1243]

I wonder if you are going through post partum depression? I went through that after having my kids. At this point it's time to see a doctor 👨‍⚕️

[MAS_Nurse]

Hi Lisa_26 and welcome to this caring community. I am sorry to hear you are feeling this way. Have you spoken to your GP about how you are feeling? He/she will be able to help and support you. We are unable to diagnose on this forum, but if you are suffering from depression, it is very important that it is diagnosed and treated. Sometimes, writing down how we are feeling can help. Do you have any other family members or friends you can talk to, as this also often helps? It sounds as though you are anxious about trying to conceive and this can be a very stressful time. It may be a good idea to talk to your GP about this, also. Try to spend a short amount of time each day relaxing and doing something you enjoy, which will help you stay focussed. Please reach out for more support and you will begin to feel better.

How are you feeling now? We care about you on this community and our members will try and support you as much as they can. Please remember that you are not alone. In the meantime, if you are in the UK and are feeling distressed, please call

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If you live outside of the UK and are distressed, please have a look at the Crisis Support Helplines on the Pinned Post section of the screen.

Please stay on this caring forum where you will receive help and support from other members. Are any other members able to help Lisa_26, please? Keep posting and take care.

Thank you and best wishes.

[hurtingheart1]

I'm sorry to hear what yoy are going through Lisa!! I def. understand the loved ones not understanding thing!! And can b hard also when your mate/guy doesn't get it!!! Also if you're trying to conceive your body may be dealing with all kinds of extra hormones running through-I know I personally feel I struggle w/ something similar in regards to female hormone thing it can really make me extra sad and cry a lot at times I feel even extra super sensitive and emotional😱😖😫😪And others just don't get it!!!! All of us are unique so each May have diff. circumstances but at same time there are ones out there that do understand care and can relate or if not exactly they are compassionate!!💞

[Shadow123-]

Hi Lisa. I'm Shadow and it isn't any wonder you're feeling like this. I just wanted to echo what everyone else has said. This is a great site to get yr feelings across to people who understand and care.

Thinking of you

Peace

Shadow

[Alliea79]

Oh reading your note flashes me like time travel to twelve years back. I had graduated high honors in college (I’m in the US), achieved great success using my writing language degree in a professional setting and was ready for the next part of life that I had planned forever since meeting my husband. I could not wait to be a mom. Never even thought or had any clue that it may take more than one cycle to begin. Months passed adding up to year(s). The depression and feelings of failure and anxiety around not going to plan even a little bit. So much went wrong with my body and health, and only progressed as my husband and myself went through exams and tests that concluded both of us had medical issues that would forever block me from seeing that positive result on any pregnancy test. I get it. And I know my husband felt it too; but my mental and general health went “next level “ bad. I won’t detail the ways, but I will urge you to find a person to keep you in their thoughts as much as possible. Tell your medical providers how very much your feelings are being affected. I wish I’d spoken up and possibly prevented long term problems my mental health brought on.

Advice besides that is that in addition to finding a real life in person mate is that there are many BBS and chat boards online just so full of others in your position and it had helped me to have a community somewhere that I could vent and bounce things around with others who “get it” when I wanted or needed a friendly “ear.”

Sending so many hugs and extra strength from Maine