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[Officiallytired]

Hi,

I've never done anything like this before but idk what to do anymore. Its a classic teenager boyfriend dilemma I'm going through and I've heard countless times that its never going to work out and that you'll go through it many times, but even though this may be true, right now It doesn't feel it and I'm just struggling to move on or forget it. I started talking to this guy in January and it was so amazing and it was one of the best times I have had in well, a while. It was completely perfect until he had to stop calling because he was busy with school work which I was slightly upset about but understood and continued to support him and he promised we'd call in the summer. I must admit, although he had said it was for school work alarms did go off in my head and I knew something was wrong. But we continued how we were until about a month before summer when he told me he didn't know how he felt anymore. Maybe I overreacted but that single sentence broke me. We had spoked about and planned so much and it seemed to have just ended with that one single sentence. Since then I haven't been 100% and have just been sinking more and more. Anyway, it is now summer and we have been in 2 weeks and he hasn't made any effort to call. I know he clearly isn't fucking interested anymore but I seriously cannot let it go for some reason. And it isn't like he can't call me because he uses discord where it clearly shows me when he is calling his friends. Anyways idk if I'm being ridiculous or whatever but I'm in love with this guy and he just.. stopped and Idk how to move on I guess? Idk I'm not good at explaining but if anyone could give advice? That would be much appreciated.

Officialytired

[Strongheartforever]

Sweet thing. I don’t want to sound condescending but that’s not love, it’s attachment. Your ego sees you with him and smiles. This is heartbreak but don’t give it the weight of real love. You won’t see this now, but clarity will come with a lot of time. Don’t waste your time longing for him. He’s sending the message that you two aren’t compatible. He’s saving you from further pain and wasted time. Don’t take it personally, just know you’re closer, much closer to finding someone more compatible. And deeper love than this guy has the capacity to give you. This is the end of the line of his interest in you and once you see you can’t get water from a stone, your heart will be open and ready for a sea of love from a real man and a mature relationship. Each time you get close to someone in your life, you’ll learn a ton about who you are, what you want and need, and what you won’t or can’t tolerate in a relationship. There are steps and this is but one. Have faith and leave room for miracles because the space is clear and open now for something better and someone who will make your heart fly. Set this one free and thank him.

[Officiallytired in reply to Strongheartforever]

Thank you, I understand..

[sweetiepye]

I believe that you love this young man, but he doesn't seem to feel the same about you. This is how I know. It's not what people say that is important, but what they do. If he loved you, he would be with you . He isn't showing you the respect you deserve. You will get over him in time. I know that doesn't really help to hear right now ,but it's true. Keep busy and see a lot of your friends which will help. Pam

[Officiallytired in reply to sweetiepye]

I will do, Thank you