Hi all
I posted a while ago about wanting to move to ease the financial pressure on me. Well it's finally happening next week and I'm hugely stressed. I cant believe I'll get everything done in time. Plus I'm panicking that I'll still be depressed when I've moved. I know I've got to take a step back because I'm trying to meet trouble halfway, but it's hard.
Thank you lilaclil. I know you're right, and I would probably give similar advice as yours to others, but somehow it doesn't work when I say it to myself! I think I'm just really scared of the future (although, as you point out, there are lots of positives about the move, and in fact very few negatives, other than the immediate stress) and find change quite hard to deal with. It doesn't help that I've had to stop seeing my counsellor (for financial reasons) so don't have her calming influence once a week. Hopefully I'll pick up with her again once my bank balance stabilises though.
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