So most of you will know my past with my ex and what went on etc.
Well we have been seeing a bit of each other again but i keep just letting everything build up then i tell him i dont think we should carry on.
The main issue is that i dont hear off him till about 10pm at night. Now this allows me time to start to let all the negitive thoughts come in and i start to think, hes obviously not that bothered if he cant find a min to text me in the day.
He says he too busy to text me in work, then he cant text me on his dinner, then he goes to the gym.
So yeah i understand not being able to text in work hours and while working out at the gym, but to me that he cant find a min between these things just bothers me. Then all the doubt starts to set in and before long im in a state where i have to finish it before i let him take the piss out of me again, imagine what everyone would say "i told you so" "why did you bother going back to him again". i just cant stand the fact he might be just not as bothered as me.
to me his words dont match his actions, when im with him he says all the right things like he wants to see me more and be back with me properly but as soon as i dont hear off him i just think omg hes taking the piss out of me again, hes obvs just leading me on, he doesnt really want all this. feel like im pathetically waiting around for him to contact me.
He asked me out right if he cant text me in the day does this mean i dont want to continue seeing him any more?
i guess what im asking is, is the fact that not hearing off him makes me anxious and not happy a reason to not continue with him?
it seems a silly reason when i think about it but i cant help how i feel. Yes i understand im insecure because of whats happened but i think what kind of relationship is not hearing off someone regularly?
would really appreciate everyones opinions because im really in a jam now
thanks eveyone xxx