Loneliness

[Ulrich_Schmerz]

Hi, I'm a 22 boy studying at colloge. I was talking with chatgpt about the fact that I feel too alone and my problem in finding a girlfriend or a romantic partner that could satisfy my need for love and affection. It told me to come here and ask for help.So... I'm here!

[Norwich1 Moderator]

Hi Ulrick. Where do you live?

[Zephyre]

Hey Ulrich. Sorry to hear of your loneliness in college, but remember, college doesn't last all that long. My advice is to not go looking for love. Look for friends and love will find you. The best place to start looking for friends is to find a weekend or evening activity that you enjoy doing whether it be walking, photography or whatever. Find something that fits with your interests. When you find something, you will also find people that share in your interests which gives you a good starting point for friendships. Friendships can then evolve into something more.

Remember, being in college, everyone else will be breezing through in the space of a few years just as you will too. Hopefully you will meet people that will stay in the same area as you and you can remain friends but the most likely outcome is that you will meet, greet and then part company and lose contact with many of them.

Finding an activity outside of college opens up many more possibilities for you and if you stick with it, you will find people that will stick with you.