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[Toby2025]

Hi all morning, juat wonder would i ever get nice lady im 27 years of age and very small penis when soft but decent when erect just feel ill be judged for it???

[OneJoker]

If a lady / partner judges you on your penis size mate, then she’s not worth your time, there is someone out there for everyone, try not to knock yourself all the time, no one is perfect 👍

[Hidden]

I think you'll find that for the majority of women, penis size isn't the most important thing in a relationship and you've said you're a decent size when erect so don't think you've got anything to worry about. As OneJoker pointed out, a woman who judges you on the size of your cock, isn't worth bothering with.

[Omniscient1]

Sound and true advice from OneJoker and Alex. Take it easy on yourself.

[Toby2025 in reply to Omniscient1]

Ive wanted take my life over it bud, as like baby size soft

[Toby2025 in reply to Toby2025]

Litterly

[Omniscient1 in reply to Toby2025]

Hi Toby,I totally get it, there's huge pressure on us all to be something we aren't, in fact something that no one really is outside of a Hollywood movie or a Superman comic. It's especially bad when you're young like you. We blokes don't tend to talk about it to anyone, so well done coming on the forum and asking.

Willy size is in truth such an unimportant part of who we are, and how we interact with people, including the other sex, and as others have said, a woman hung up on that isn't worth knowing. Most women will tell you that penetrative sex isn't all we(men) think it is anyway. But reading this from an anonymous guy on a forum with Wile E Coyote for an avatar may not resolve your qualms. I can't advise enough to talk to someone about this, your local Dr is a good place as he (or she) will have seen loads of them and will confirm to you it's ok. If you need to 'get past the receptionist' make something up -just tell them you have a problem peeing or something.

But to sum up, for sure, you have nothing to worry about, you are normal.

[OneJoker]

hey mate,

Sounds like you need to talk to someone, honestly you are beating yourself up for nothing

[xsevenx]

If you are considering self harm, speak to a mental health professional TODAY!

[jimfromcalif]

What do you consider small?

[OneJoker]

we are all here for you mate if you need a chat or anything, just send a message anytime, not a doctor or professional but here for anyone needing a chat 👍

[spoons2]

Any Woman worth knowing doesn't care about that. Women aren't as concerned with sex as men and most women really want love and security from a man. I'm 56 so I've been around and I guarantee you that the vast majority of women do not care about penis size.........by the way, mine is at the low end of the average. Average is 5 to 7 inches when erect.

[Toby2025 in reply to spoons2]

Thanks for your comment on here, but im happy when its erect as 6" inches but when soft its micro penis size like no girth and like 2inches its embarrasing as being a man i think women will just laugh when they see it soft will put them off me. Feel theres no way out for me man

[Omniscient1]

It does sound like you're pretty normal, if the plumbing works well enough to make it erect then you have nothing to worry about, and neither will the ladies.

[Toby2025 in reply to Omniscient1]

Just will get judged when flaccid

[Omniscient1]

Hi Toby, I think most of the guys on here will say that you're not going to get judged at all, never mind when you're flaccid. Its a bit like not all girls look like Barbie, but we still fancy them - right? I'll go back to what a couple of us have said - please go and talk to someone about it.

[jaglad]

Some excellent advice here. You are who you are not a Penis. Most men have size anxiety at some point, then they meet the right someone and it is not even considered.

Good luck and live your life.

[Toby2025 in reply to jaglad]

Thankyou for lovely comment, but I hate getting dressed, going toilet, showering because I have to see it effecting me so much as its so small like 1.5/2 but looks Evan smaller due to it not having alot girth aswell bit happy with it when erect, I know probably didn't want here that much information just of my chest sorry I kjiwndidnt what Hear this..

[xsevenx in reply to Toby2025]

Ever considered a cock ring.? Makes your flaccid hang bigger. And you might like the feeling wearing it too!

[Toby2025 in reply to xsevenx]

I don't think be my thing

[xsevenx in reply to Toby2025]

You never know till you have tried!

[Toby2025 in reply to xsevenx]

And my helmet Is very small

[OneJoker]

honestly Toby, you really do not have anything to worry about, I really think you should go and talk to someone, start with maybe your doctor, they will reassure you what everyone has been saying already.

At the moment it’s only you judging yourself, and we all do it honestly, you are not the only one

[FerdyOne]

There can a lot of difference between flaccid length and erect between men. So length may not vary much from flaccid to erect, while some can be small when flaccid and a a good length when erect. If your length/size is 'decent' when erect, don't worry about it.

[Hidden]

Get yourself a prescription for Viagra or Cialis and cut the pills into quarters. If and when you are going to be with a lady and you think she will see your exposed parts, take a quarter of a pill and it will fill your member with enough blood to make it look slightly bigger. Once the first impression is made and you've secured the win, she won't think anything of your shrunken manhood when it's hiding.

[Hidden]

So how big is it when erect? I think most men are the same, can be very small when flacid but a good size when erect.

[Toby2025 in reply to Hidden]

6inches erect I'm happy with, but when soft like baby size man it's horrible like 1inch odd not alot girth

[Hidden in reply to Toby2025]

Nothing wrong with it then.. sounds normal to me.

[Toby2025 in reply to Hidden]

What like baby size when soft and 6inch erect bud

[Hidden in reply to Toby2025]

why worry abut the size when its not erect.

[Toby2025 in reply to Hidden]

Because it looks silly as looks like kids size instead of being a man and embarrassing when women see it

[OneJoker in reply to Toby2025]

Mate it’s normal size 👍

[Toby2025 in reply to OneJoker]

What a in soft is normal

[Toby2025 in reply to Toby2025]

Inch

[Stewiethecat in reply to Toby2025]

Don't show it to them if you are not aroused. If you are embarrassed about peoplke seeing it, take action to avoid those situations. If you get aroused with a woman before she can see or touch it then no worries. At other time you can always pop something in you pants like a rolled up sock to give you more self confidence.

[OneJoker]

yes mate average and above average hard

[Toby2025 in reply to OneJoker]

But when soft it like micro

[OneJoker in reply to Toby2025]

It’s normal mate