Foreskin seems to be attached all the way around. Please help me

[Pleasehelpme16]

Hi, it seems as if my foreskin is fully attached all the way around my glans, I can retract it to about 70% where it the doesn’t move whatsoever. When retracted this far I have pinched it and pulled upwards to see if it’s just tight, however it is attached with a kind of membrane. I’ve been with my girlfriend now for 6 months and when she gives me a handjob it is quite painful and often causes tears that are very painful, this also ruins my erecttions as the pain causes me to lose them.

Please help as I really don’t want a circumcision as I’m 16 and I imagine it will be extremely painful for me as I get regular morning wood. If anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated.

[Pineapples101]

Well you could slowly peal it off in the bath, their may be some pain but a few boys do this when their younger anyway, if you think anything is ripped and it’s not just the adhesions then stop immediately, but most people suggest pulling back a little further every day, you could you moisturiser on the head to help before and after.

[Pleasehelpme16 in reply to Pineapples101]

It does seem as if this has happened partly on one side after the other day with my girlfriend, but thank you I will try to do this.

[Lee021618 in reply to Pleasehelpme16]

I would Honestly suggest you see a Euroligist as this happened to my son and got worse and he needed a circumcision

[Pleasehelpme16 in reply to Lee021618]

I’m beginning to consider it now. I’m going to attempt stretching some more but if there’s no results I will go to a eurologist.

[Lee021618 in reply to Pleasehelpme16]

Please don’t cause it will only cause you more damage... I told my son the same thing and it was way more damaging in the end

[Pineapples101 in reply to Lee021618]

No it’s not, doctors recommend to do stretching exercises, but do them correctly and safely. Btw I wouldn’t trust someone who can’t spell urologist!

[Lee021618 in reply to Pineapples101]

Ya coming from someone who says stretch the shit out of your foreskin .. I have 2 boys 13 and 23... and oops I spelt urologist wrong... take my advice ... don’t give advice to stretch the shit out of your dick .. really!! Again he should see a urologist.. so fuck off!!

[Pineapples101 in reply to Lee021618]

They only cause damage to people who are stretching correctly thats why you should use a steroid cream if you need help with inflammation and make sure your not pushing yourself to far because that could cause damage.

[jimfromcalif]

The adhesion you were born with hasn’t yet detached. Try separating them. With several attempts per day, eventually you’ll prevail. A coating of Vaseline will prevent the surfaces from fusing again.

[Gibbo2012]

As you are only 16 I would speak with your father about. It is difficult for anyone to advise you without seeing it first off. In some children the foreskin doesn’t detach from the gland till later. This could be perfectly natural. It happened to me. The foreskin on average detaches around the age of 5 to7 years old. However in some people it happens later. I would speak to your father and possibly get a referral to a urologist. Are you living in the UK. I personally would advise you not to get a circumcision as the easiest option. The recovery time can be quite long and painful. As is often the case when the NHS performs the operation. Explore other options first. When your girlfriend give you a handjob try using some lubricant. Durex make a whole range of them and you can get them from a supermarket or chemist.

[Pleasehelpme16]

Thank you everyone for the replies I’m going to attempt a few of these and hope for success.