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Hello everyone. I am a 70 year old male who has had ED problems for about 5 years now. I have used viagra, but so far the best has been cialis. I also get testosterone shots every two weeks. Lately I have been having problems staying hard when entering my wife during intercourse. She can get me hard but most of the time, shortly after entering her I either go simi-limp or completely limp without ejaculation. If I watch porn movies with her I can get a hard-on that will last through intercourse. I might add that I do love my wife very much and I certainly do not want this problem. I am thinking about increasing my dose of cialis or if that does not work, getting penile injections. I might also add that I am bisexual, have been with men before but now am trying to stay manogamus. Any inputs appreciated.

[nickItaly]

Sorry Dear Scrollsawman,, I've not solutions for you. A good andrologist certainly can help you. I appreciated you sincerity also in admitting that you are bisexual. Probably bisexuality is much more common than thought. Many men do not admit that they can be stimulated ALSO by other men. Your example is paradigmatic in demonstrating that a bisexulal man can be a perfect partner for a woman. You say you love your wife very much and you are available not to live your bisexuality because you love her and you want to be faithful to her.

Nick

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Hi Nick. Thanks for the reply. I think I have fixed my own problem. I usually take 5mg of cialis each day. Yesterday, just as a test, I took two 5mg tablets at 8PM as we planned on having sex at 9PM. By 9PM I had a very good erection and was able to have intercourse with no problems. My wife was very happy. I woke up at 1AM and had a perfect hard erection. At 5:30AM I awoke and still was able to get a complete firm erection and have intercourse. So it appears that all I need do is double my pill strength, but we will do a couple more "tests" just to be sure before I talk to my URO. I will stop taking the pill daily and only take it a couple hours before sex until I can see my URO.

[jaglad]

I like you have no problem getting hard but do often go soft before I can enter my wife or occasionally whilst inside. If you cannot stay hard with cialis there may be another problem. May be it is worth laying off the 'artificial enhancers' for a while and see how your body reacts ?

As with anyone if you are really worried or there is no improvement, see your Doc. Let us know how you get on.

Good Luck

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Thanks for the reply. I think I have fixed my own problem. I usually take 5mg of cialis each day. Yesterday, just as a test, I took two 5mg tablets at 8PM as we planned on having sex at 9PM. By 9PM I had a very good erection and was able to have intercourse with no problems. My wife was very happy. I woke up at 1AM and had a perfect hard erection. At 5:30AM I awoke and still was able to get a complete firm erection and have intercourse. So it appears that all I need do is double my pill strength, but we will do a couple more "tests" just to be sure before I talk to my URO. I will stop taking the pill daily and only take it a couple hours before sex until I can see my URO.

[jaglad]

That sounds like a good result.

Just be wary of overdoing the pills.