Need advice on blow job after circumcision

[johncena007]

Hi All,

I have undergone circumcision 32 days back due to phimosis. My girl friend wants to try blow job after 5 days and i did not say her that i had undergone this surgery. She will be scared if i say abt this surgery and i dont want to loose her. Now that my glans are so sensitive, is it good idea to proceed with pain or should i say no? My doc after operation said that i can have sex after 5 weeks but i dont think so it will happen because of sensitivity. Also not sure all my stitches are gone or not and also not sure if there is any infection? I am attaching pic. Plz confirm if my circumcision looks good with out any infection? When i had foreskin blow job was good but do not know how it will be now.

[timmyboy20]

Hey bro, your circumcision looks great and perfectly normal. It looks as if not all stitches have gone but you can remove them by now since they have done their job.

[johncena007 in reply to timmyboy20]

Thanks timmyboy for giving confidence.. Do i need to go to doctor to remove stitches or i should do myself? I dont know how to remove myself..

[timmyboy20 in reply to johncena007]

If you don't know how to remove the stitches, you best go to your GP. He can do it for you. By the way, being sensitive shouldn't be a problem for receiving a bj or having sex

[Cipher]

Give it more time.

[johncena007 in reply to Cipher]

Thanks cipher. How would i know how much more time..will i have problem if i take BJ? I know it will pain bec of sensitivity..It will be 42nd day when my GF gives BJ. Please suggest

[Hidden]

Why did u do a circumcision ? Wasn’t it normal during sex ?

[johncena007 in reply to Hidden]

Due to phimosis..had sex with condom without problem. Never had sex without condom. Doc said i cant have sex with out circumcision. Had to believe doc because never experienced and dont want to take risk after marriage..

[Methodman99]

You and your girlfriend will enjoy yourselves once you have fully recovered. You’re looking good, just give it more time.

[johncena007 in reply to Methodman99]

Thanks methodman. Any idea or guess how many more days? My doc said that i can have sex after 42 days...when i had checkup with doc last week he said iam gud..but i said iam sensitive and cant have sex so he said wait till sensitivity decreases. No other suggestions. Also i feel few stitches are still left after reading other comments..

[Methodman99 in reply to johncena007]

It’s not necessarily about how many days but whether you have healed or not. Six weeks is an estimated time that was determined probably during clinical trials. As people our bodies recover differently and other things may happen that may cause delay of healing, like infections, one’s health etc. So just assess yourself, check your wound and see if it has healed then go for it.

[Kriswigs]

Don’t do it just rub one out little by little , mouth has to much germs mess aorund and catch an infection

[johncena007 in reply to Kriswigs]

Thanks kriswigs. So BJ is risky until iam healed fully.

[D3VO]

Wow. It sounds like what you really need to do is have a frank conversation with your girlfriend. Then proceed from there.

[johncena007 in reply to D3VO]

Thanks D3VO for suggestion.

[Liesje111]

You lookes good! My boyfriend has have his circumsision 7 months ago. Your picture is like his dick at that time. Vey similiar. We didn't have sex for 8weeks. At that time I have give him his orgasms with my vibrator at his head. That was a little painfull but it have give him his relief what he really needed.

After 8 weeks we have give it a try, the first few times with condoms and now is every thing normal again. We now don't use condoms anymore. He now needs more time to have his orgasms and that is very enjoyable!!

[johncena007 in reply to Liesje111]

Thanks Liesje. So as you suggested will wait for 8 weeks and then see if i can sustain blow job. If everything is gud will try sex with condoms. My prob is my head was never exposed because of phimosis so sensitivity is also problem. All my erections are still painful. I am scared of marriage and cancelling all my plans with my girl friend. Hope everything gets resolved in next 1 or 2 months. Thanks again.

[Hidden in reply to johncena007]

Hi John,

How are things with you now? Your surgeon has done a very neat job and the picture you posted looks very good indeed.

Like you, I could not retract my foreskin so had to have mine removed and the sensitivity was frightening. To be honest, I thought at the time that I'd never walk normally again. But after a few weeks I was, and about six or so weeks I could have sex successfully; you will do to! All you need to do is have the confidence, talk things through with your girlfriend and plan with joy your forthcoming marriage.

Have you so far only ever had bjs and not full sex?

All good wishes

[johncena007 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks compton. Had sex only with condom. I will talk to my girlfriend next to next week. Then i will reach 8 weeks which i feel safe to have even sex. I am not using any medicine for my circumcision, so may be it is healing slowly where every1 says 6 weeks is enough for healing.

[Hidden in reply to johncena007]

Thanks for your reply, Johncen. Listen to your body; you will know when you're ready for some activity. Err on the side of safety; a couple of extra weeks is nothing in the grand scheme of life. May I wish you all the very best and a very long, happy and healthy marriage. P

[johncena007 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks compton for your wishes...

[Hidden in reply to johncena007]

[johncena007]

Thanks NOWHARD. I will surely say the missing part is operated couple of years back rather than couple of months back. Yup hitting 6 weeks mark but as all suggested i would wait 2 more weeks for full recovery.