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High circumcision is terible horror

Circumcision for me is one catastrophic event. I ll have never been recovered from that. After total circumcision, I lost about 70% of sensibility, my glans became numb. I don t fell so pleasure, no orgasmic feeling. Everything is changed. Before that I like sex so much, and enjoyed a lot. I got high circumcision, with removal of all foreskin and frenulum. I fell depressed, and don t know how to live... I think to indict the surgeon who advised me high circumcision. Now, I think it is better to cut me every another organs. Now I would give out any other body organs. To get out my eyeball, anything else. I am desperate, and my life is completely destroyed. I was a normal, potent sensible man. Many girls enjoy my company. Now, I got back. This is the most terrible loss I could experience. I don t advice this to nobody, and I ll fight against circumcision.

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Looks like your one of the unlucky ones.

In my experience, it’s possibly one of the best decisions I’ve made and I do not regret it AT ALL. Sexual pleasure has remained the same if not better than it was before.

Although I did get a low circumcision and I was lucky enough to keep my frenulum

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It looks he's a member of the anti-circumcision sect. His story is so unbelievable, unless there must be something gone wrong terribly.

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There are three videos below that corroborate his testimony.

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Always the same videos of these poor brainwashed men, victims of the anti-circumcision sect!

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One needs to understand that about 70 percent of the adult males in America are circumcised. Most of them have intense opposition to hearing anyone say or write that they have lost anything and that their partial penis is not perfect. They mount intense opposition anyone who suggests differently.

The condition of the male phallus impacts a male’s feeling of well-being. A phallus diminished by the loss of the erogenous foreskin to circumcision necessarily adversely affects one’s feelings about one’s self, resulting in uncomfortable feelings of low self-esteem. There is, therefore, a strong tendency to deny that any loss occurred. Minimization of the loss is a common defense mechanism; ridicule of the subject is another. Adamant father syndrome is a result of denial of loss.

Persons who have lost body parts must grieve their loss. Failure to grieve and accept the loss puts one in permanent denial of loss. Many men who have been circumcised do not want non-circumcised males, including their own sons, around to remind them of their irreversible loss. For these emotional reasons, as Foley (1966) observed, there tends to be a strong irrational bias in favor of universal circumcision among circumcised males. Many fathers who were victims of neonatal circumcision, for the reasons described above, adamantly insist that any male offspring be circumcised. This phenomenon has come to be called “the adamant father syndrome.” Circumcision, therefore is a repeating cycle of trauma in which circumcised infant males grow up to be adult circumcisers.

acroposthion.com/psychologi...

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Men who have been circumcised tend to suffer from a complex of emotional issues. A man's sense of well-being is closely connected with the state of their phallus. A circumcised man has a wounded and incomplete phallus. They have had a severe loss that they seek to deny so they don't feel the pain of the loss.

Circumcised men who have a son frequently will insist that the son receive a circumcision although there is no medical indication for the operation. They will say, "I want my son to look like me." What they really mean is, "I don't want anyone with a foreskin around to remind me of what I don't have."

Circumcised men will claim false health advantages as a justification for their circumcised state. Others will talk about imaginary smells from a foreskinned penis or how “ugly” is a foreskinned penis This is all a device to make the writer feel better about their terrible loss. We see a lot of that sort of thing going on here and elsewhere.

Doctors who were circumcised as infant boys are more likely to recommend circumcision and to perform circumcisions than non-circumcised foreskinned doctors.

Individuals who have been circumcised, rather than accepting their loss, deny it and try to persuade other men to be circumcised.

It is all a result of the emotional issues resulting from the loss of the best part of one's penis.

drmomma.org/2009/07/circumc...

newmalestudies.com/OJS/inde...

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Thank you Very much. It is very best information about world we live. Fathers who don t have fathers, have tendency to punished their child with "no love - behavior", separation and tendency to leave child. It is unconscious process. There is so many different examples in psychiatry. One of them, maybe the best, is "adamant father syndrome". But why some mens want to help another, and to stop this horror? Maybe there are special to can get over with unconscious part of thinking? What is the anti-circumcision movement? Is it possible, because of vanity and evil, you can do so many suffering? And how to stop it?

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I live in the USA and I can assure you that this is a myth created by the anti-circumcision movement. Most men here don't have a problem with being circumcised. It's that anti-circumcision itself that creates the problems by spreading all kind of lies and some men believe this.

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Denial is not a river in Africa.

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It is not the same. You lost meaby 20% of sensitivity, becouse of constant exposure of air. You lost "gliding effect" of foreskin. Before that, meaby you have some problems (like fimosis) and you think that is better. It is sensitive question connectid with mens proud, and many of you, don t want to admit the changes of filling.

I lost about 70% of sensitivity, and gliding effect. I am desperate, and I must to prove, and to writte about it! It is fantastic! When you only say with the laud voice, something to woman, she can accused you for violence! Somebody, destroy your sexual, emotional life, and you must prove and fight to find understending!

It is devils works, like the whole world!

If you circumcised woman, do you cut the clitoris or only hood? I think that the high circumcision is like cuting half of clitoris for woman... Is it normal? Do you protect girls from that?

I think that whole nations have destroyed sexual filling. But it is so big pain, that thay dont want to admit. Thay protect the "proud". Oh my God, what is it... Devils works.

When you loose your sexual life, you loose your emotional and social life, you loose concentration and works capacity. You loose almost everything.

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I think you need to get professional help because there’s something mentally wrong with you.

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They can t help me. It is not the point. And, you know, I am the doctor, have many patient, have many experienced, and many years of works. I never do any procedure without proper indication. Thank you for your effort to understand me, but you can t, becouse you dont have information of me, you dont see me, you don t hear me. Whole medicine is a part of truth. In medicine, you have many mistakes, many suffering becouse of bad treatment and bad indication.

And, do you know what you get to psychiatrists? Antidepresants or sedativs. And you are in the worst situation. Thay can t make foreskin and filings.

Please, dont answer to me.... It is not nessesery.

Enjoy your life with the low circumcision and frenulum.

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All he did is state the sad truth. Those who need help are those who promote mutilation. It’s a condition known as body dysmorphic disorder.

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The American Jewish psychologist Ron Goldman, PHd, has two books on the subject.

circumcision.org/ronald-gol...

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Why where you circumcised? You might not have needed it. This may be why you lost sensation.

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I don t need it. This is the worst.

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Well then why the hell were you circumcised. Most people only get it done because they have to e.g phimosis

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It was preventive circumcision. No indication.

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Vitomir:

You are not alone. Others feel as you do.

Circumcision experience

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No, he's not alone, he almost certainly makes part of the anti-circumcision sect as you do.

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You are obseessed with the promotion of genital mutilation. If your result is so wonderful, why are you still here?

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And you and the other followers of the anti-circumcision sect are obsessed by the idea that you must miss something precious when you're circumcised. And I'm here to answer questions just like you. The only difference is that I don't tell lies.

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Timmy, give it up. you are imagining your lack of loss. Science calls you a liar.

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Science has proven that it's much healthier when a man has been circumcised!

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I’m not agreeing with the anti circumcision thing or the must circumcise you’re self thing, but I did do a bit of research and instantly I saw that the statistics for HIV and circumcision, don’t really say anything good or bad unless you live in a lesser developed place like Africa where the medical services are scarce, and obviously has less access to condoms and medications, and the rest is irrelevant in my opinion, obviously unless it’s for phimosis or anything causing problems at the time,

This is where I got the info:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lis...

en.m.wikipedia.oPrevalence_...

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Let me put it straight, I'm not promoting circumcision for everyone. If there's nothing wrong with your foreskin or if you are happy with it, keep it. Only if you have phimosis it's the best solution for your problem.

I also think a circumcised penis is cleaner and thus healthier. No matter how good you wash under the foreskin, at the end of a sweaty day it gets smelly don't ya think?

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Not really tbh, it would take a couple days to get smelly, but if you have phimosis it might get more smelly quicker because you may not be able to pull it back to pee or clean when needed.

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True but there are also guys who get smelly down there short after they washed their foreskin. I have a friend who got that problem. He decided to get circumcised to get rid of it.

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He was probably washing wrong to be honest, he must not have been taught as a kid to wash behind his foreskin or he just neglected it, but if you can clean it properly you should not have a smell problem. I knew one guy who wanted to know how to get rid of a smell once, but it was because he did not use soap to clean behind it, he thought it would sting like when you get soap in your pee hole.

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The use of soap is known to trigger yeast infection. Simple clear water rinses once a day is sufficient. If you wouldn’t put it in your mouth, don’t put it inside your foreskin.

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Actually you’re a circumsexual. You have a singular experience with your own penis. That’s hardly enough experience upon which to draw a blanket solution to tightness. My 30 yr experience proves you wrong.

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Study the different rates of HIV infection between circumcised Americans and intact Euros back in the 70s and 80s. They indicate circumcised men were at greater risk.

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Timmy, that’s a lie. They have proven nothing. It’s all hype of the AMA to keep their members profitable. Circumcision is a fast buck for very little effort. It’s all about money.

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High circumcision is not like low circumcision. The most important and sensitive part of mens body is "red foreskin" aproximatly 5 cm beneath glans penis, and frenulum.

In low circumcision, you lost maybe 20% -30% of sensitivity, becouse of constant exposure of air. You lost "gliding effect" of foreskin. Before that, meaby you have some problems (like fimosis) and you think that is better. It is sensitive question connectid with mens proud, and many of you, don t want to admit the changes of filling.

But in high circumcision, you lost 70% of sensitivity, and gliding effect. It is the ONLY TRUTH! And that is the truth, which must be known by doctors and urologist. They know that, and becouse of that, their works is CRIMINAL!

I am desperate, and I must to prove, and to writte about it! It is fantastic! When you only say with the laud voice, something to woman, she can accused you for violence! Somebody, destroy your sexual, emotional life, and you must prove and fight to find understending!

It is devils works, like the whole world!

If you circumcised woman, do you cut the clitoris or only hood? I think that the high circumcision is like cuting half of clitoris for woman... Is it normal? Do you protect girls from that?

I think that whole nations have destroyed sexual filling. But it is so big pain, that thay dont want to admit. Thay protect the "proud". Oh my God, what is it... Devils works.

When you loose your sexual life, you loose your emotional and social life, you loose concentration and works capacity. You loose almost everything.

My life was destroyed. No way to find solution. Only purpose on my lafe is to FIGHT against circumcision, or if must be necessary (very realy medical condition), to do it low or cosmetic circumcision. DO IT TO BABY IS CRIMINAL ACT!

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Just as I thought, another member of the anti-circumcision sect!

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But why tell it with that tone? You have problem with mens proud? Yes, I understand it, belive me. And I don t say that you are in problem. If you think it is OK to loose 70% of sensitivity, go on. Do it for your child?! But don t do it to my child please. And I am very sorry becouse of misunderstending of any living person in planet.

But I am speaking truth. And you know that.

Only reason why we have so many different opinion is a PROUD and FEAR ! Fear that you be out of normal. BUT YOU ARE OUT OF NORMAL AND NATURE! Your sexual life is demaged, and you don t have courage to admit that. Nature makes foreskin to protect glans. It is same lake eyeballs and lids.

But communication about this theme is a big problem. How to tell it to whole nations like Muslims or Jewish. It is not posslible. Average man thnks: Ok, I must protect my sexuality in any way. I don t tell anybody that I fell different. I tell to every woman that it is better than no circumcision. Who knows that? The most important thing is to preserve the feathers of the peacock. It is the part of sex play and sexuality. I must be competent man, potent and safe. Now, I am in different better state. Circumcision is good, better than no circumcision.

But it is war, stupid competition.

I dont want war with circumcised men! It is stupid. You lost as am I, meaby less, but you are lost too.

Babys never know what is lost. They never knows what is natural felling. I know. And it is my suffering.

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You are not alone in your assessment and your feelings. norm.org

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Your terminology is reversed. A low circumcision takes most of the highly inervated inner foreskin and causes severe sensitivity loss. A high circ preserves mostvoc the inner foreskin, allowing a few more years of sensitivity before keritinization lesses it.

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Hey buddy, I think it's best that you seek out help. The loss of something like that that's affecting you so adversely is bound to bring in issues. You need to live life to the fullest and you cant fo that when all you think about is what you lost. PM me if you need help

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I know that hear I cant find help. I want only some words. Real help is to returned foreskin, and it is not possible. Nobody can help me. And I try to live without that feeling, feeling of full sexual life. I can make good erection, I can make orgasam to women, but I fell very different, I don t enjoy. You underestand me?

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Go to www.willywellbeing. com for honest and effective professional help.

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Vitomir:

Circumcision is an elective operation. Why did you elect to be circumcised?

Did you know that the foreskin is filled with nerves that provide sexual pleasure?

Have you considered non-surgical foreskin restoration?

wikihow.com/Regrow-Foreskin

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I have bad information of everything before. Yes, I herd about restoration, and it is my last hope to protect glans...

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Www.foreskinrestore.com

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I would not bother trying to restore your foreskin, it’s gone and lost forever so your gonna need to get over that. I’m pretty sure foreskin restoring is a waste of time though because the nerves are gone and the new foreskin would take ages to get back, it’s just not gonna feel the same.

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There is actually great benefit. Having new covering allows the glans to return to original state, shiny pink, soft and sensitive.

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That’s cool but I don’t think you could ever get it back 100%

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Correct. The frenar band is not restorable, and it’s a major contributor to sexual pleasure. Depending upon how much inner foreskin was preserved, its sensitivity returns.

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Fantastic. Do you have some recommendation about device and procedures?

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Thank you :)

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I order foreskinrestore advice (80$ price). I hope it will done. Thank for advice and human response.

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It will need a certain minimum amount of flaccid slack to be attached. Norm.org can suggest any preliminary stretching you might need. Temper the skin by using it in short sessions when you start. In a short time, you can work up to 1-2 hrs wearing it. Give it 15 min breaks.

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I ll try it. It will be for 7 days, I hope. Thank you, thank you very much.

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You may private message me.

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The anti-circumcision movement accuses doctors they profit from doing circumcisions. And look who's gaining profit now!

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Who?

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