My Decision on Circumcision

[ans1992]

I'm a 25 year old, Indian. And here I come to share my story and to encourage circumcision to my brothers who are in a dilemma of making a decision on an organ that makes them what they are - MAN.

I suffered from Phimosis from childhood. I never ever remember seeing my glans.

I wondered why a penis looked different in porn. I thought my skin too would come down after having sex but I realized that I suffer from Phimosis after chats with friends at the age of 17.

I was scared and devastated. I ignored it thinking It will cure on its own. But later realized that everybodys skin goes down but not mine. Which was worrisome.

I digged into so many websites. I have battled through natural ways of loosening my skin. But all in vain. I have suffered from burning skin sensation and sometimes a tingling pain that lasted hours.

The process of loosening my skin would give me pain near my frenulum, which was unbearable. I also sometimes had an immediate effect on my stomach after an exercise of loosening my skin. That lasted for a day or two. The skin has expanded but not so much that I could pull it down.

On a fine day, I find myself on bed trying to have sex with my girl but It didn't get in even with condom. It didn't end well. I have read that it's real danger if skin goes back and gets stuck there. I was scared to have sex. It depressed me.

I postponed getting circumcised for long enough and the day had come when I said to myself that this is going to end. I'm going to come out of my suffering that I put myself in.

The feeling of being unable to make love is worse. That made me feel like I'm not a man anymore.

I gathered courage to meet doctors. Many of them. Skin specialists. Urologists. General Surgeons and General Physicians.

All of them suggested to go for circumcision as that is the only option but I still didn't have the courage that it takes to go ahead. I lost hopes. I didn't want to lose the most sensitive part of myself.

I went into depression. I was frustrated, angry, unproductive and out of line with my life. I have been through tremendous embarrassment of not being capable of fucking my girl even though I had rock hard erections. I couldn't do the one thing that a man was made to do.

I'm an aggressive guy. I have achieved success in all croners of my career and am still crushing my goals. So why not be the guy that I am.

Without the second thought, I got up the next day. Went to the best hospital in the city. Arranged my surgery next week. Paid 35K in advance.!

I have made my own diet plan and started consuming absolutely healthy protein rich and high fiber content all natural food.

If I'm doing it, I'm going to do it right!! Coz it's my Dick. It's the recognition of my sexuality.

7 days later. I Got circumcised.

[allstar1979]

35K?!

[ans1992 in reply to allstar1979]

Yeah buddy.. It can be done at affordable cost.

I got a doctor's recommendation, a 30 yr experienced General Surgeon, who charges more if he does it with his own hands. Moreover I chose International Standards option too.

It's way costlier but I didn't want to take chances.

I forgot to mention the purpose of sharing the amount. It was to let you all know, to go for the best. It's a one time and lifetime investment. The costlier the better.

[Night_Guy]

Some advice I wish I had was to get it done by a plastic surgeon. Most doctors do it by the books, which is the same way they have been doing it since they got their license. I found out 2 weeks after my circumcision that they cost the same, but they use modern techniques to minimize scaring while allowing patients to choose where they want the scar line.

[jaglad]

I was well into my twenties before being able to pull back but it made no difference to having sex. It was always good or great ! It can be a problem if it gets stuck but I managed to ease mine back over, slowly and carefully. And after that it became easier. If you need it, go for it. If not, think very carefully.