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ED at 23(lose erection while masturbating)

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I have been dealing with this issue for the last month or so where I will be masturbating for 5-10 minutes when all of a sudden I will start losing my erection. I have started to get nervous when I masturbate because I am now constantly expecting the ED. I have been having days where it isn't really noticeable and other days where I am masturbating and I will end up with a limp after 5 minutes.It starts to go down and sometimes I cum at 50% erection and I have came completely flaccid before(which leads me to think its biological) .When I get random erections/morning wood, the erection is only partially filled with blood and doesn't really go rock hard. I have tried cialis with OK success but it isn't a miracle pill either.What could possibly be going on here to cause such an awful thing to happen to me. My penis also seems shriveled up to about 2 inches and I have to masturbate it for 30 seconds before it gets hard(80-90% erection only to lose it 5 minutes). Sometimes I will start to lose it and it will randomly get hard again. I am not sure if it has to do with arousal level but even if arousal level dropped I don't feel like I should lose my erection in seconds. Could this possibly be a venous leak?

I used to be able to masturbate 1-2 hours without cumming,now I am lucky to get 10 minutes. I have asked for help on other forums where they believe in a nofap philosophy but I feel like I am talking to a wall half the time. All advice will be appreciated.

Edit:Forgot to add that I find it easier to keep an erection when I dont use KY to masturbate. I also cannot achieve an erection without stimulation.

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I am not experienced enough to give you definitive advice but on the face of it I think you are worrying to much. My suggestion would be to lay off masturbation for a few days, wait until you really need it, then see what happens. Try different forms of stimulation. If no improvement go see your Doc. Could be many causes, most easily treatable.

Good luck.

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