I'm 30 years old, healthy and confident guy. Never had problems having or finding sex and very comfortable in my own skin.
I've realised though that over the years whenever I am in a long term relationship there comes a time where something happens to my sexual 'connection' with my partner and I find myself finding it something I feel less and less comfortable with. It's like my body stops reacting to them and in turn it makes me more panicked and concerned of my ability to get an erection. I can stimulate myself no problem but the minute I try to connect that with being with my partner my body shuts down again.
I know I love my partner and more recently we have talked about it which didn't really go down well as she's struggling not to take it personally which then makes it even more of a point in my mind.
Are there any online help courses or videos that can help whilst I seek help from my GP etc? Over my life whenever this is happened I put it down to oh I must not fancy them anymore, but I could meet a girl tomorrow far less physically attractive and have sex with them no problem, so I know it must be something to do with what's going on in my head.
Any advice extremely welcomed.