Catching Discharge from GF. How to approach?

[Jack76]

So after a few trips to the GP, it seems this year, that I have had a few cases of discharge from the penis. Each time were cleared up with Antibiotics but always thought it was maybe medication I was taking (Candida)

However each time, I get a wet tip (I'm uncircumcised) and a clear, sometimes white/green discharge. GP said it was an Anaerobic bacteria, and could be cleared up.

I have been with my GF for 8 years now, and both of us are completely faithful. However I am now thinking it comes from her? I haven't said anything yet, as I don't know how to bring it up?

This has only started in the last year or so, and we always had unprotected sex for the past 7 years. The last time I got rid of this, we then experimented with using a condom and all was clear.

Now I had one time sex unprotected, and it seems its back again?

How do I approach the subject that she may need to get tested just for both of our sakes, just to eliminate anything?

[OldMan55]

that sounds tricky, maybe explain what you posted above and mention that you are concerned for her health?

[Nelly19812022]

I used to get this with my partner aswell. When I got circumcised it stopped. You must be a carrier and keep infecting her again

[Jack76 in reply to Nelly19812022]

Thanks, but I am 46 and this has never happened before? and i'm not circumcised

Why do you think this could suddenly happen all in a row?

Also looking at potential circumcision, but the pain and fear is putting me off!

[Nelly19812022 in reply to Jack76]

I was 40 when I had it done. Been with partner 15 years. It only started happening 2 years ago. Don’t know why. Doctor thinks it was inside my foreskin. Now I don’t have that problem

[Jack76 in reply to Nelly19812022]

Ok thanks. Did it hurt or what was the procedure like?

[SetteeSofa in reply to Jack76]

Hi Jack. Just to say that I was 31 when I was circumcised, and that was due to severe phimosis. If you need the procedure, then go for it. Please don't let the thought of the discomfort dissuade you. Yes, it isn't a bundle of fun for the first two weeks or so, but they soon pass and the rewards can be dramatic. It is, of course, a balance of risk vs need, and some people do regret it later. In my case I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever. Off topic, I'm now on the list for two total hip replacement surgeries as both mine are 'as bad as they can be' as one surgeon described them - and that was about 4 years ago!! Like you, I'm dreading the pain and inevitable recovery problems. All the very best for your health and future.

SetteeSofa

[Jack76 in reply to SetteeSofa]

Thank you. I know I should really have it done, but dreading the procedure, and any pain from that area, as we all know its so sensitive!

[SetteeSofa in reply to Jack76]

Don't worry, Jack. I'm the world'd biggest wimp by far, and I managed it, and so will you. With the support and understanding of your girlfriend you'll be absolutely fine. Good luck!

SetteeSofa

[2CutNot2Cut in reply to Jack76]

Body changes. Urine with sugar means more bacterial growth. Change of diet includes more sugar???

[Stones331305]

suggest to her that you are concerned for her & think it might be a good idea that she gets checked out to make sure she hasn’t contracted this infection from you

[2CutNot2Cut]

Have evidence you can explain and back up helps if pointing fingers.. Make it seem common helps. Curable issue helps.. condoms as proof.

Take her on a romantic dinner and pop the question there🤣