Went to Debenhams for a birthday treat from friend. But girl did not know what lupus was ( had to fill in some form) and was afraid to massage me just incase she triggered 'something' off! Another birthday treat from son. Thinking of NOT disclosing that I have lupus and getting full benefit of my massage on my torso and legs - not scalp cos that is where its at! Need all thoughts - no matter what. Diagnosed with discoid but my body is aching but that could be age... got a frozen shoulder and croydon taking long to phisio me.
Disclose lupus or not. Will Spa massage be a no no OR good.