Hi, I have recently been diagnosed with sle, my partner and i are finding it both strange and dificult to come to terms with all this. I have a lady partner who is very caring, but is confused and asking what does this mean to her and what is her role in this situation...what is she supposed to do?? Her questions not mine....I cant give her the answers because i dont understand what is happening myself. Does this make sense to anyone out there. Can anyone tell me what i can say to her. I know she loves me dearly and wants to do anything that is neccessary to help me. Im really struggling, ive always been very independant and not used to asking anyone for any help...Also known as stubborn!