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Last time I said I was pregnant, about 6-7 weeks long I started bleeding n got worst. Doctors think I may have had A miscarriage, but still doing test to see if it is. Never happen to me n just been worried. Top of that getting flares...stress. Hope everyone else is good.

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bluebell99

Hi, I am so sorry to hear your news and you are feeling understandably sad and probably a bit hormonal too.

Please be kind to yourself and get plenty of rest and try not to worry.

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Jo_25 in reply to bluebell99

Appreciate it, thank u so much.. God bless you

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misty14

Hi jo

So sorry at your news, hope you haven't suffered a miscarriage. Look after yourself with lots of TLC. Can you increase your medication to help with your flare?. TAKE CAREX

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Jo_25 in reply to misty14

Thank u so much appreciated it. God bless u

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creaky

So sorry Jo, I've had a miscarriage it's a difficult time, emotions allover the place, be very kind to yourself and take your time 💐

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Jo_25 in reply to creaky

I will thank you appreciate it god bless you

I know it is impossible not to worry but I also started bleeding heavily at 6/7 weeks with my daughter and a scan showed no heartbeat. However i was booked in for another scan 2 weeks later and that one did show a heartbeat. So even tho the nurse who scanned me told us "this one isn't a go-er" (yes! Exact words!!) Second scan proved her wrong. Try not to worry and take care of yourself xxxx

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I had the same for two out of three pregnancies. In the third pregnancy they were so sure I was miscarrying that they hospitalised me for a night but next day I had a scan and all was fine. They thought perhaps I'd conceived twins as lots in maternal line - so lost one early on but kept the other. Best of luck - your hormones will be everywhere -please be very kind to yourself xx

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Quite frankly I don't think they knew what was going on all the way through my pregnancy. They insisted I was 2 weeks behind where I thought I should be all the way through, they also insisted the baby was breach so I spent the last month on all fours much of the time trying to get baby to turn. When I went into labour (9 days late by their reckoning) they monitored MY heartbeat at first as they were so sure she was breach - she was in the right position all along! And she was much more than 9 days late - the placenta had completely disintegrated and cord detached, so it was off to surgery for me, took poor doc ages to make sure he had got it all. They said afterwards they thought she was somewhat later than 9 days... I didn't say "told you so!" :) BTW - I also bled with my son during my first pregnancy - was told sometimes women just bleed and they don't know why...

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Oh wow! Glad u OK, thank u god bless you

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Thank u god bless you

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Jo_25 in reply to

It is scary I have a US later so will see thank u god bless you

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Good luck! I hope all turns out well for you xx

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Silvergilt

Yes, I've had a similar scenario. Lots of bleeding, lots of worry. But I have a son, even so. Be gentle to yourself, be kind. I wish you hope.

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Jo_25 in reply to Silvergilt

Omg I hope am OK, thank u god bless

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johare

Hi I am sorry to hear your news. I would just add that, as we seem to know so early now, so many of us get disappointed when in the past we may never have we were pregnant, just late. It is such a shame. There is hope as already mentioned. I have four children and my last daughter I had endless difficulty with. Early bleeding etc, bed rest. finally born at 32 weeks. Shes fine. Good luck.

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