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Hi all need some prayers

Hi all not wrote post for a while please can you pray for me that I can get through this my 36 yr old son has unexpectedly died aged 36 in suspicious circumstances he was up in Glasgow visiting family but he lives in Devon that was on 26th of August his funeral is next mon in Devon so will have to fly down I've had so much to do with police involved etc I've Been running on pure adrenaline now I am struggling with the pain from fibro so exhausted can't stop my brain from thinking to get some sleep I am dreading the Funeral as don't know if I will be able to keep it together I just want to wake up and it's not true one min I am in tears the next I am so angry and want to smash everything up please pray for me that I can make it through I am so grateful for this forum for it's listening are and support thanks maria

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Hi Maria1958,

I'm so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. Have you spoken with your GP? Do you think you could benefit from some additional support right now to help you manage during this difficult time?

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They have given me some diazepam for 3 days of 2mg for the day before till day after funeral I had to take 1 in middle of night as had palpitations and brain wouldn't shut down I am trying to make myself believe it's not true sounds stupid I feel that barely hanging on and now the fibro pain just shot up I take amitripline and Prozac also co codamol but they don't touch the pain when in a flare up do you think I should go back to doctors thanks maria

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I think your GP may be able to help, as Paul says. I'm so sorry for your loss, and will keep you in my thoughts.

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Me too: am greatly feeling for you....we're all beside you Maria ❤️👭👫👭👭👫👭👭👭👫👫👭

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WHAT A TRAGEDY - you poor thing [and having to bear lupus as well] - my heart really goes out to you. Be strong, Maria - I do hope that the medication will help you through all this. I hate to imagine how I would cope with the loss of my own 40 year-old son. Personally, I would definitely let the Dr know how you are coping and ask his advice on drug dependency; those are some powerful things you've been given. Best of luck in coping - I will certainly be praying for you.

SD

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Thank you so much I am really grateful x

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aww so sorry for your loss my prays are with you and take care of yourself xxhugs xx

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So sorry to hear, how horrendous this must be for you

You are in my thoughts xxx

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Thanks much appreciated

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious son. I can't imagine what that would be like. I have sons, too. I'll be praying for you often throughout my days as that's the most powerful thing anyone can do for you, Maria. May the Lord shelter you under his wings and lift you up when you are feeling low. We know his strength is greatest when we are our weakest.

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Thank you so much x

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Dear Maria, I'm so terribly sorry for your awful loss. I send you all my sympathy. X

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Thanks so much x

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Thinking of you. X

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I have 2 sons, and have sympathy for you, very hard. To lose a son in such tragic circumstances is one thing, but with the health problems on top, it must be very difficult . I hope you are offered good support to help you deal with everything and cope.

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So sorry for your loss, no-one should have to bury their child, I will pray for you to have the strength to get you through this tragic time.

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💖💖💐💐💐 so sorry to hear your tragic news, prayers and hugs to help get you through this terrible time. Xxxx

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So sorry. Thinking of you x

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I will be praying for your strength and comfort.

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Hi Maria

I am so sorry for you. I know exactly what you are going through as lost both my sons due to illness within 6months of each other

I also have Lupus and all other illnesses and like you felt as if I could not cope

It really does not matter if you can't keep it together at the funeral. I completely lost it both times but people understand

Please accept all the help you can get both from GP and family and friends. I had a massive Lupus flare and I had diazepam for few days and it helped me cope with all the identification and the police etc. Now 4years on I can still feel what you are going through and am still angry but life goes on even if you wish it didn't at times and now I have good days as well as the bad ones

All the love in the world to you and big hugs X

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I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers, peace, comfort and love your way. ((( HUGS))) XXX

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I will ask the universal energies to send help for you. Remember your breathing right down to your abdomen and know that you are not alone. I found natural healing helped me greatly with grief and managing funerals, etc. Meditations, praying and other forms of alternative help such as reflexology can be of great help at such times. I didn't have to travel like you, however, so take care and all our thoughts are with you.

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P.S. Your GP could know of reputable people to help you. Mine did!

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So sorry for your terrible loss Maria, sending you love xx

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Oh Maria I'm so very sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your son. I will be sending thoughts and prayers to you, and with everyone from this great community I hope it will help get you through this dark time xx

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Try to take care of yourself through this tragic event. A wise person, clergy possibly, told me that sometimes God takes a person to prevent something more awful that would occur in their life. Maybe this is true for yourent son.

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Dear Maria1958, I wish I could say something to help alleviate some of your pain and despair on the death of your precious son. I am thinking of you & will pray for you. Love Pixiewixie

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Thanks pixie much appreciated I've got my 6yr old granddaughter today overnite to keep me busy I hate being alone two much time to think x

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Yes I can pray for you my friend, may the true God Jehovah bless you and keep you in your hour of need and that he will remember your son when the resurrection comes through his son Jesus Christ. Rev 21 v 3,4.

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Sending you strength. My thoughts are with you in your tragic loss of you son x

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