Perspective

As a vet I read the Bible cat plenty of pet and horse mournings

No one has to explain what pets mean to use

Most vet offices have tons

Excuse me Henry ur in the computer mouse. No that my mouse. Again

Tons of office mascots

All animals have anxiety with vets

Soooo not to sound insensitive or know easy for me to say

99 of all students terufied of failure in vet or horsemanship

Plese I’m so scared I’ll hurt the horse

Plese I’m soo scared I’ll be disapinted

Plese I’m not as young as I once was

S’more??

Can u pass the Barbaque sauce? Oops I spilled some on my saddle lol

Anxiety?? Cuz yur bunking and breathing kinda like trees shed their leaves in fall

Oh m god I’m losing my hair tree doc And my leaves aren’t young and green anymore

Ah no offense it’s ah October

S’more??

[Nathalie99 Partner]

I understand that some changes are natural as we age but it can be still a lot to process. Some things happen over time, other things suddenly.

Of course putting things in perspective can help, it does for me a lot of the time. Sometimes, just sometimes, changing perspective does not help - that's when I reach out to my trauma therapist.

I understand your examples though.

Ptsd is tricky and at times my usual coping mechanisms don't work so I need to face things in therapy to find a solution or acceptance/processing/releasing of emotions.

I am amazed at how many different experiences we share and it changes my perspective, reading other people's stories and life experiences. It is very precious and I learn from it.

Thank you for sharing your perspective, I will keep it in mind if I notice I worry over things unnecessarily.

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I try to treat people as I would want when I teach as I’ve known the other

Being judged for thinning hair etc really doesn’t help. I agre that for me I like being around true friends as thre are judgrnnyal

People and I don’t enjoy their lack of life experience

Women have lots of life changes of course speaking as a former husband. There are lots of jerks who say incredible weird things to their wives

The mature ones can be hard to find but then so too who wants us?? I respect people for how they treat people and their chemistry etc compatxbikty and how they don’t judge me. I’m not Kevin kostner

Friendship genuine friendship

Is important for me I do get ya but there are lots of people who aren’t accepting of either gender

I prefer older more interesting animals by hard my bias. I’m surprised when people say they are forty and fifty and his old etc or things. Uh no offense didn’t notice

I do get that I’m a country guy and I do get prob easy for me to say and lots of rejection for all us

It sad that friends mean so much to me and I can’t make them feel nice or special cuz they to me. But I get

Been in groups struggling with wt and but

Fir me. Not relevant

Again easy for a guy to say

Maybe a woman wants to feel beautiful again we don’t know as we’re only shovels

I still miss a woman from

Four years ago

First time anyone ever let me hold her

She was the sweetest woman diagnosis’s with personality disidrr What a saint she was. Idiot doctor

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I do get that I too find it hard to say who cares what others think like in the dressgd barns. I’mA standard guy not elegant

They all say. Oh the manure pike is over there

I’ve been teaching dressgd for forty years

I do get to a bit

Gardrr in women I suspect esp with life and hormonal changes only another Roman can relate to

Take care

Thanks for the discuss ion and mail

Welcome go disagree. I’m just a guy

[Nathalie99 Partner in reply to Hidden]

Personally, I find friendships and relationships very important and I see how many people are lonely and feel "rejected".

That's sad like you say.

I am in my early 40s and my husband appreciates me but I don't always accept myself. I have slightly thinning hair, it is nothing compared to real problems but it can cause feeling "less than" if we compare ourselves to others.

It is a subjective feeling as my husband says I have great long hair.

Lots of things can make us self conscious and lead to avoiding human contact. Yet human contact is what makes me so much better.

It takes courage but it is worth it. People will notice your kindness.

Today I met a lady locally who lives alone with her dogs and she started a group to go for walks to meet other people. She has friends now. That was really inspiring.

Thank you for your post as this is a very important need, to have friends, to be around others and feel less alone.

What a beautiful touching memory you have...I'm sorry you miss her, that's heartbreaking. Very precious that you had that time with her.

I'm so sorry you are not together anymore.

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If only I could talk to my horses do ur best but

I’m not a horse I can only guess

Well I’m

Partially Mule so

Lll