Crying all night PTSD Part 2

Couldn’t finish sorry! Sorry is I missed spelled, I’m really nervous. My daughter hasn’t care about me with the abused from my birth family. All she wants is from me. One other thing,my grandson is getting older now, he’s a very loving grandson. I know he doesn’t want to do as much wupith me anymore, he likes to be with his friend. I told him please just tell me the truth if tpyiu rather be with your friends I’d understand. But yesterday he told me he wanted to go to the batting cages with me. So I said ok ,ask you parents and we will go. Then he called back, and he said his mother said he could go because he had a hockey party so I said ok then, other time. Then later at his game I aske what time the party was it was right before the night game. I asked her then why couldn’t he go this was at 12. She said he’d rather be with his friend. I told her she knew I rather have them tell me the truth, I’ve been lied to all my life. I don’t want my grandchildren to become livers like their parents. I know they are their children, but grandparent also try to teach them good from bad too, I have raised n

My two grandchildren, , and they are the most loving caring kids, they are the lights of my life. They tell me they tell them to say what they say, also the kids tell me what’s going on in there home, but it’s none of my business, I just try to tell them I’m always here for them, and everthing will be ok, and how much I love them

[SavingGrace Administrator]

Hello gh123.

I'm so sorry that you are hurting now and, I want to extend an arm of acknowledgement and grace to you, because it sounds like you need encouragement and courage right now, which I believe you do have and shall continue to find in these difficult times.......

You have beautiful grandchildren who have faith in you and see more clearly than adults often can, through their own troubles.

Sending you strength, blessings and peace.....

Much love.

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Thank you so much for caring. I hope you read my whole letter, I had to do it in to parts because the iPad won’t continue. The part I mean is about my daughters husband stealing my money out of my bank account which she is on because Incase I die. He always been a lazy bum, if you read you will see how horrible this was, and she doesn’t care . Thank you from the bottom of ❤️

[Nathalie99 Partner]

Hi ghi123,

Firstly, I'm sorry your family is taking money from you without your permission. It's a betrayal of trust.

I hope you can get him to repay your money and not take any more.

Maybe removing their names could prevent it. I'm so sorry you can't trust him and that you are hurting so much.

It is really very painful when closest family doesn't support you regarding your abuse. It is often the case that an abusive family member behaves differently towards others in the family and they just don't want to hear that this person is abusive.

I think it's called scapegoating when one or two people are the targets and the rest of the family is unaware.

I think they might need therapy to accept that their vision of how things were is not the truth.

I'm glad your grandchildren are a source of joy and hope you have your own relationship with them, not involving their parents.

You deserve good quality time with them.

I'm sorry you cried so much. Hope at least those tears brought some emotional release.

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Oh thank you so much for caring, it means a lot to me. Life has not been easy, especially when the ones you love, my immediate family don’t care what happened to me, and also my daughter not caring what her husband did to me. He owed me so much already, and now he did this. I wish she would realize what kind of man he is. All my money is being set up now to go to my two wonderful, loving grandchildren, when they are 32 now.Im not feeling well now with the PTSD, but as soon as I feel a little better. I’m going to tell him he should be ashamed of himself, and some day maybe his children will find out someway, not by me. But I am charging him interest for this money, the other I was not for the last 12 years. I’m so grateful to be on this site with wonderful, caring people. ❤️