Parents and children is such a peculiar relationship. My mom has helped a lot with me moving into my place but everything has turned out quite crooked. I don’t mean to sound ungrateful. She has a style of doing things that really disturbs me. She does things very quickly and without asking and thinking things through and then there are problems that I end up living with but I can’t complain because she helped me. I just decided to take the lesson learned and next time do everything myself. If she wants to help she can pay but I will do. And if she doesn’t want to help in that way then it’s ok. I’m feeling frustrated and bothered. Then when I told her I was unhappy with our communication she just cut me off and said I’m done. It all seams so small but makes me feel so much frustration. Maybe I should have known what I was getting myself into
Learned my lesson: Parents and children is such... - Heal My PTSD
Learned my lesson
I feel for you. Family is the hardest to deal with. The history between each other always seems to play out. I am much better with people that I do not have history with.
Sounds like she didn't want to hear the "truth" about her actions.Not for u to worry about, since u were just trying to communicate with her and be honest, to have a better relationship with u and her.
I think in time she will understand ur views and will talk with ya.Meantime.. take care of "u"
I sometimes forget that she isn5 really going to change...a lot of anger comes when i try for someone to be something they will not be
Some people don't change BUT sounds like u were just trying to have communication and a relationship with ur mom. We cant always get what we want n deserve in life and some times we just have to make our own path in life solo to be happy.
my own worst enemy (possible trigger warning)
The day my world came crashing down.
Isolated
My own battle.
