Sexual assault

If you're really drunk and out with someone who you trust to look after you a friend who knows that you're married with a young child and you're not interested in them sexually I don't know how it happened I was too drunk but next thing I remember is he was touching me sexually is this indecent assault

[trekster22]

Yes if you said no or were too incapacitated/scared to say no.

[itsmytime]

If you were drunk and he took advantage of you then yes. It almost sounds like you were slipped something. You may want to get tested at the gyno and ask for blood testing for all fields.

[Hidden]

Absolutely yes. You were in a vulnerable state. He took advantage of you. Does your husband know?

[tyzack]

Think itsmytime has a good suggestion. Something similar happened to me. My opinion, never go near this person again. Tell him you will press charges if he ever comes anywhere near you again. You were violated. Do not feel guilty or allow him to make any excuses for his behavior. This is serious.

Been there.

[Diana_DID Pioneer in reply to tyzack]

I'm glad you had the courage and bravery to be so strong and protect yourself and keep yourself safe. Well done!

I'm sorry for your experience.

[Diana_DID Pioneer]

Hi hidden,

This sure us sexual assault. What makes it harder to accept is that it was a trusted friend who knows you and your situation. A friend who chose to take advantage in some way whilst you were drunk.

Personally speaking I hate cowards like that. Just because your drunk doesn't mean he can take advantage of you for Hudson gain. People who do that whole drunk must be very insecure about themselves or ugly because if they can't get someone whose straight why go for a vulnerable person who is drunk? He's a weakling and can't go for you in your right frame of mind as he knows your not interested so he waits while drunk. People like this anger me deeply as not an even playing battle field and he knew it.

Withselfish friends like that who needs enemies? He was only interested in himself and what he wanted and fantasised about wuth you for a long time. Pig.

Must have been a scary experience for you also. I'm sorry about your confussion. Hope you can tell hubby.

Best of luck with it all