I was diagnosed yesterday . The doctor bluntly told me within the first few seconds of meeting him i have bladder cancer. Then right into best\worst case scenario and treatments. At this point im numb. Then he tells me I need the very large tumor removed asap. I sign the consent paper and leave. Today I get a call that I can't get in for surgery for almost two months! I am in panic mode. Is this the norm? Should I find another doctor? I cannot see myself waiting knowing I have cancer growing in my body. Help!