I often wonder what would help me the most, a cleaner/gardener/someone to do my washing...
Having put much thought to it, I think it would be someone to help me get ready in the morning...breakfast, tablets, wash/shower, hair brushed and dressed in clean 'day clothes'! I am at my most 'doddery' worse in the morning, it takes ages for me to come round, by the time I am up for movement its lunchtime and getting 'ready' exhausts me, so much of my day is wasted.
With a bit of help I could be ready to face the world and potter my way round chores/or do the things i want at my own pace.
In addition to Fibro I have a degenerative spinal condition, realise we are all different.
What would you choose to be helped with?