Hello its me im back for good

[chicme]

hi,all you lovely people im back an im here to stay cos i will survive as the song goes an im feeling fantastic !!!!!!!! ive kicked him out 2 week ago with the help of my sons wished id done it years ago oh why do we put up with men like that??? cos they knock every oz of confidences out of us that's why i will never ever let a man like that in my life again an dont any of you lovely people put up with what i have be strong we are much better off without them we really are ! i have no stress now the tablets helped me as well i didnt know how bad i was feeling to how i feel now not just the crying n stress i couldn't remember what doing i would get up from the chair bed go into a room/upstairs but not know what i went in for i would stand there lost trying to think what it was i went there for i would ave to stand an think talking to myself trying to get it out my head what i wanted to do it was horrible an i was putting it down to fibro but it wasn't the fibro coz my head is clear now i cant tell you how great i feel im looking after myself better taking vitamins that was my new yrs resolution to think of no1 me new yr new me iv got rid of lot of my clothes buying going to get a change of haircut next week iv started a little hobby tv off all day theirs no stopping me now im off !!!!!!! hehe ,so i just want to thank you all for being there for me an all the great advice love n hugs you gave belive me you did really help when i felt so alone n low an sorry it took me long to to back to you all i just want say a very very big thank you an Avery happy new year to you all with loads of hugs n love xxxx ; -)

[chicme]

its 4.00 in the morning an i cant sleep sorry about the missing words im always doing it .that should av said buying new clothes an i just wanted to say a very big thank you to u all xxxx ps just watching the lovely white crisp snow coming down it looks beautiful any one want to come n play in the snow only joking i dont mind the snow when it nice n white its when its grey n icey we don't like night night or good moring going to try n get some sleep hugs all round xxxxxxxxxxx

[Hidden]

First of all, well done. You took strong action, and now you are reaping the rewards.

And I agree with you. It is so easy to blame everything on the fibro, but I am also finding I feel better now that my marriage is over. Although we are still house-sharing (for financial / practical reasons) divorce is in process. And I have found out so much about him, and realise that little step by little step, I had allowed him to become a complete bully and dominate my life. Now I am learning to respect myself again, and it feels good. I can think more clearly, I remember things better, and I have more energy. It's an incredibly stressful time for me, but so far I am managing it OK.

So you go girl. Enjoy your new year and new you. But please bear in mind, that you do still have fibro, and try to pace yourself just a little bit - lol!

Kaz

xx

[chicme in reply to Hidden]

hi love thanks i no how you feel but we are 100 times better than them remember 1 thing they are the weak ones they dont like there self so intern they do this to us to make em feel good ive had it all the putdowns smirking when people are around very weak people they are .u go girl an stick with it we are all here for you hugs xx

[chicme in reply to Hidden]

ps i found out he is sleeping with a 16 year old hes 50 odd its sick an many more young ens xx

[Extremelygrumpy]

So glad you are back for good and great to see both of you so happy and determined to make fresh starts

Hugs

VG x

[ArctoLindy]

So glad you're doing so well! Are we allowed to ask about the new hobby? Wishing you a very happy 2013 xxx

[sue57]

Aww great chic!!!! It's sooo lovely to hear you're back on top!! You've done soooo well, it looks like 2013 is really a new year for you!! Well done!! XXXXXXXXXXXXX

[chicme in reply to sue57]

yes yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeharrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr thank you so much xx

[Hidden]

Happy New Year to you Chic, great to have you back with us. Start as you mean to go on, here's to your new future!

Wishing you all the very best, please know that we are always here for you and we will do our best to help and support you the best we can along the way.

Bless you!

(((hug))) xxx

Libs

[chicme in reply to Hidden]

thanks lib it means alot xx

[Hidden in reply to chicme]

My pleasure, so good to see you today! xxx

[Hidden]

So glad things are looking up for you

[chicme in reply to Hidden]

thanks love xx

[ladymoth]

Well done, Chic! Lovely to hear a happy story - you are one strong lady! xxx