Stop the world I wanna get off.

[Sthandra]

Hi all I know I haven't been on for a while just the odd comment here and there I ain't been feeling up to it.

Well here's my news we have the results of my daughters friends death, it was a small bowel infarction thrombosis I think its a thrombosis rather than a twist either way the bowel wall died which allowed sepidge spelt that wrong which slowly and painfully poisoned her system. Apparently its quite rare, one of the symptoms is diarrhoea which she had, it is possible that if she went to the hospital instead of relying on NHS Direct phone line she could have lived I'm not knocking NHS Direct but they can only go by what they are told, that is. If they even rang her back which as far as I know they didn't, if she had gone to hospital they would have done a thorough exam and done blood tests she probably would have had a colostamy bag but she most likely would have got used to it but her baby girl would have had her mummy. Her funeral is on the 22nd at Huddersfield crematorium at 1.15 so I won't be doing my normal shopping trip as its a Tuesday she's more important to us all, so shopping can wait a day or two.

On to other news my middle daughter has broken up with her fiancè after 8 years he's been accusing her of cheating on him again, I've lost count of how many times he's done that, he's taken her key off her and she's still got loads of her belongings round his including her laptops, so its going to be confrontations when she goes to get everything and god knows where she's gonna put it all as her old bedroom is full of baby things from our grandson and my new garden furniture including our new barbecue, ah well we will sort something out, well that's my news big gentle hugs all around . Sithy

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Hello Sithy, I am so sorry to hear all the details of your daughter's friend's death, how horrendous and terribly sad. Then to hear of what has happened with your daughter, I would imagine she's not in a happy place right now poor soul and of course neither will you be with all the worry.

Take all the time you need to be there for your family, we will always be here for you when you feel the need. We are always here for you and we will do our best to help you through all this. Being a Mum you will of course have all the worry and strain of your daughter's situation, but try to take care of yourself too and rest where we you, when you can to pace yourself my dear.

Take care and I honestly do feel for you. Bless you. xxx

(((hug)))

Libs

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Very sad about your daughters friend....And sure you are worried about your daughter, My children are all in their 20's and I am a nana at 48 to our little two yr old grandson whom we see often as they live near by, but I still worry about them all. Take care of yourself too though x