Some of our surprises have disappointed and hurt us emotionally. Never more so than the abandonment I felt when the Rheumy told me in the limited appointment time that I had FMS. I think we all find it very easy to look and find the hurt, but every little good thing is the focus that will help me to feel better. Emotionally, it gives me the feel good factor, and enjoying that moment or surprise however small or apparently insignificant it is the focus of my moment.
Surprisingly, my teen daughter ate the breakfast I made for her today - it makes me very happy to know that she has actually eaten before she goes to school. Most of the time, she is too late or tells me she doesn't feel hungry etc. I am joyful about this little change in our morning school routine.
I'm off to the vet with H dog to get his stitches out ..... I wonder what joys await there! LOL