Today has been ok, my boyfriend is creeping up to me at the moment but I have made up my mind that I will move out and see where we go. I don't think that is the end of us, he is only 22 and currently trying to open his own restaurant and we moved into our first ever house without parents, its alot of stress for one person, let alone also being a carer. My friends have agreed to live with me and spread the caring between them, they already cook for me most days. We started looking at houses and its made me excited.
Still feeling sick and not sure why so I've booked an appointment with the doctor next week, also gonna mention my DLA appeal with them and hope the could write something. Can I ask for a copy of my medical notes? Would they print them out? Also, this fatigue is becoming unbearable, I'm struggling to concentrate whilst driving...
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Hi, happy to hear that you are looking forward to your new ventures with your mates. You obviously have some great mates as that is so lovely that they will care for you.
You have to do what is right for you!!
I feel sick all the time too and have trouble eating. i have lost so much weight. When I called my dr he got all stroppy with me and now I feel he can't be bothered with me...i will be looking for a new GP soon.
You can have access to your notes under the Data protection Act, however you will probably have to pay for them, usually about £10.
What wonderful friends you have...it's support like that that you need. I hadn't realised that there was so much stress going on in your life and as you say maybe just too much for him to deal with at the moment. I do hope things work out for you....have as good a weekend as you can!
fibro fog bless her lol i am diddle night night XXXXX
Hi glad that you have sorted it all out and have made a choice and feel excited about your new beginning and how much fun will you have looking at places and your friends sound wonderful just the sort of people you need around you right now. I am sure now you have made up your mind and got things going you will perhaps feel better in yourself and you never know perhaps with living seperately you and your well now sort of x boyfriend could work things out jus take a day at a time and see how it goes, i have been with my partner 8 years next week he has got his house and i got mine, he comes every night about 8 goes at 11 and then sleeps on sat but hass not done that lately as i am nightmare in bed with fibro pain you know what i mean not fair 2 people losing sleep. and we just like it that way(well I do) and think he does too, we get on ok and i know and he does too that i will never live with him or marry him so there you go all is not lost. But i am 46 been married twice both husbands had affairs and i have 1 child with each he is 55 and never been married so we older than you i suspect. oh well i am gonna go as i in pain for a change and i really have had enough today but saw your blog and was worried about this morning so wanted to write to you, funny how we suddenly all seem close to people on here we dont even know each other but we all relate and seem to get comfort from each other which is so nice. take care and you will be ok love and extra special soft hug to you Diddle xxxxx
Your welcome now go curl up and enjoy your evening thinking of you all out there love to you all and soft hugs to you all night night wont say sleep tight lol Diddle xxxx
hope everything works out for u n yer partner cxs957, living with fms is hard for all concerned and im glad youve got such good friends. Enjoy youre weekend best u can and tc, things will work out Xxxxx
i had similar experiences with relationship. But my partner was a carer and his mother was housebound, you would think he was the ideal catch! Nope he had 2 affairs. finally saying he couldnt cope! that was bout 5years ago now, been on own since but moved close to my folks so they help me out.
Its hard and it gets lonely, but i am better on my own and if somebody comes along... it may feel like end of world now, but that feeling doesn't last and least you have good friends round you. good luck xx
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