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Today as been the worst😫my mom went to hospital with stomach pains, within 5 minutes of me getting there I was told she's got cancer and is now in surgery 😞been waiting 3 hours now, you just never know wats around the corner, sorry just wanted to say

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AllthatGlitters profile image
AllthatGlitters

sorry to hear this & I hope your mum is out of surgery soon and makes a full recovery 💜🤞

in reply to AllthatGlitters

Thank you😪

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Luvyrslf in reply to AllthatGlitters

wishing your mum a successful operation and may you both have the strength to face everything that life throws at you, together 🤗🙏🙏

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Blackwitch

I’m so sorry to hear that Punta. You must be in awful pain physically and emotionally just waiting to hear. I hope your Mum and you both get through this. Remember to take care of yourself ❤️ xx

in reply to Blackwitch

I was already having a bad day physically, I can feel all my muscles and nerves throbbing, it's horrible waiting to hear something 😪I'm trying to stay strong for everyone else 😪

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LisaSnowFMA UK Volunteer

I am so very sorry to hear this shocking news to you and your family. Praying for a successful surgery and recovery.

in reply to LisaSnow

Thank you, we're still waiting

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honeybug

Sooooo sorry Punta. I pray that your mom’s surgery is successful and that she gets better soon. Please take care and know I’m sending gentle hugs 🤗 and prayers 🙏 for you both.

EJ 🤗♥️🥰🙏🕊🌿🌸🦋

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CM1EDSUK

I will also hold you & your Mom in my thoughts & prayers.

my heart goes out to you, you need to as emotionally strong as you can and try to rest where possible , I hope mum is ok , take care ❤️

in reply to Tiggerlostherbounce

I would like to say thank you to my fibro family for all you support💗💗💗💗

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Mille21

That's awful I'm so sorry hope you're mum is OK keep us posted please take care xx

oh how awful, hope all goes well and she soon feels better. X🤞

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cathy64

what terrible news, I hope you’re mum makes a full recovery, sending gentle hugs, 🙏❤️

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Elizahl

Sorry to hear that hopefully all goes well with the surgery and she makes a speedy recovery it's amazing they picked up on it so quickly though sending hugs x

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Gigiruth

Sorry to hear about your Mum.I hope Mum is in recovery soon.

Big fibro hug.

Please look after you at this stressful time.

Gigi

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Kryptonite59

So sorry to hear your difficult news and my hope and prayers are with you, but you’re probably wondering how you’re going to cope. You’re fighting against the odds here, so please don’t try and be strong thinking you can sort everything out. Remember this will take it out of you on a major scale, so don’t be afraid to seek professional help. The hospital will, I am certain be taking good care of your mum, but your mum, bless her, being unwell doesn’t mean you are going to automatically get better yourself. I’m finding it stressful just thinking about you , so please remember to look after yourself. I hope everything goes well. Take care.

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Freespirit65

hang in there she will be fine…

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emoor528

oh no!!! Sending you positive thoughts and hugs.

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RustyOBear

Feel deeply for you Punta as I went through the same with my Mum years back.

It’s such a shock to the system with all the emotions that arise in such a situation.

I hope she will soon be on the road to recovery.

Meanwhile, it will be super important for you to ensure you keep up the basics such as regular eating, top up with with a multivitamin and mineral supplement, keep hydrated and pace yourself with regular rest breaks and gentle walks, even if you don’t feel like it.

I hope you have family or friends you can share the worry with for support?

We are all here for you. Sending giant hugs your way. Deborah xx

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shandy12

Punta, I’m sorry you are going through this. It must have been devastating for you, not just finding out about mum but the worry and the waiting to hear positive news from the health professionals. Try as best you can to stay calm . As you will know, any stress, anxiety will exacerbate your own pain… remember to breathe in threw your nose to the count of four and out through your mouth for seven.

Hope this helps 😇

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Patdoyle

praying your mum recovers well xx

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Lillylilac

Oh gosh Punta. I am so sorry. What an awful shock for you. I do hope with all my heart that she is ok. Sending you much love, prayers and thoughts. Big comfy hugs to you. 🫂❤️

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Joanne1711

I’m so sorry xxx praying surgery s success 🙏💋

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EarthSitter1

so sorry wishing all the best for you and your mom 💛

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Delilahmy

so sorry to hear this x

Onedaymore1 profile image
Onedaymore1

be strong 🥲

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SweepSooty

Sorry to hear this Punta, I have an idea what you are going through as my mum has been diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer, should have been treated 4 months ago but the hospital missed it and now it's too late for treatment. So no one knows what each day will bring, hope you mum pulls through the operation. Sending hugs

in reply to SweepSooty

That is terrible, let's stay strong 😪

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Littleone88

sending love and strength for you both!! ❤️

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Shortstuff1501

Aww sweetie, how awful for you will be sending positive energy, my thought are with you today 💛💛

sorry to hear that you are going through such a tough time- I hope your Mum’s surgery is a success and wish her a speedy recovery x

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Uellow22

AHH darling I'm so sorry to hear this. I wonder how things went for you and your poor mum?

It's shocking news and very traumatic these events in our lives.

Do you know which time of cancer, I'm hoping that I'd they were able to operate last night that potential things may be positive for you.

Big hugs xxxxx

Yellow 💛

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KimiJay

What a horrible shock for you, Punta. And for your mum. The team of nurses, surgeons and others will do the very best they can, but no harm asking angels to guide them and give healing and a good recovery to your mum. Make sure you drink enough water. xx

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Lulu_Lollipop

So sorry. Best wishes to your mum and you xx PS I know about the not knowing what's round the corner because of my own experience with large brain aneurysm and later on stroke and my lovely fiancé took himself to A&E with stomach pain a few years ago and was found to have an advanced bowel cancer. Big surgery and eventually supposed to be clear then it came back again. Big surgery again, but thankfully, fingers crossed, touch wood etc all clear now. Fingers crossed for your mum.

in reply to Lulu_Lollipop

🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞these are for you and your partner ❤️

HMBradley53 profile image
HMBradley53

Any any news on your mom ?

in reply to HMBradley53

No she is still in surgery but thank you for asking I will update as soon as I know❤️

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Heather8590

hoping all goes well with the surgery and she recovers well.

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Casasue

Thinking of you I had same issues if any help xxx

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Dogs4life

so sorry to hear that hope the surgery goes well xx

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MaggieSylvie

So sudden, so sorry. I hope along with you.

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Welshcatlady

Sorry to hear about your mum, hope her surgery goes well. Sending gentle hugs. x

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Willow51

Such a shock for you both, I hope it all goes well for your mum and she makes a full recovery xx

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Sarahvit

So sorry to hear about your mom Punta, we never really know what is coming around the corner. Praying for her healing. I just noticed 44replies. Has there been an update since your initial post. Sometimes the posts are days old before I see them. I hope surgery is over and your mom is okay.

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Buntybunny

I felt your sadness when I read what had happened. Your mum having an operation is good news, they wouldn't operate unless they were sure it would be beneficial. My dear friend had a tumour, I thought I was going to lose him, they wouldn't operate until he had chemotherapy. That was 18 months ago, I look forward to reading good news about your Mum, I'm confident the hospital knows what will work. Keeping you and Mum in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and love. xx

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7534

SO SO SORRY😢I am very SAD for you ….& pray 🙏🏼…all will be well ……sending my fondest love to you both xx

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DorrieF

Thinking of you and sending healing prayers for your Mum x

AnnMB profile image
AnnMB

Receiving that news is really hard. I am praying the surgery went well and the outcome is better than first thought. We don't get to choose what life throws at us but we can choose how we get through it. You are much stronger than you think!

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ShelWhitt

Sorry for your bad news. Try to stay positive. We are all rooting for you and your mum.

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Suffering2021

I’m so sorry to hear this Punta do hope your mum & you are alright x

MAZ47 profile image
MAZ47

I hope your mum’s surgery went well. Stay strong and positive…. I know that it will be hard. Gentle big hugs Punta.

Rainyru profile image
Rainyru

so so sorry 🙏🙏🙏🌸

Kasha profile image
Kasha

Sending healing prayers and big hugs 🫂 your way. 🙏

Karm profile image
Karm

Keeping you in my prayers. X

wab1058 profile image
wab1058

🙏🙏🙏❤️💕

in reply to wab1058

I would just like to say a massive thank you to everyone for your support, words can't say how much it as meant to me.There is an update about my mom, she had a tumour removed and some of her small intestines.

Today she is sitting up eating jelly......

My mom is such a strong person I'm so proud of her 💗

So thank you all again😘💖

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Blackwitch in reply to

That’s really good news, Punta. Your Mum sounds like a real fighter. I’m sure everyone will join me in wishing you all best wishes for her speedy recovery. xx🌻🌼🪻🌸🌺🌷

Debsdelight72 profile image
Debsdelight72

Punta, I know much worry and upset you are feeling,

many people will also have prayers and love in their hearts for you,your Mum is in the best possible place, (Please dont take this the wrong way)If they took your mum for surgery they think they can help her,which is a positive way to see this.

Please put your arms around yourself and hug as tight as you can (in private) let all your emotions flow and let yourself be loved,

Look after yourself Punta

Keep us informed

Take care

Debsdelight72 profile image
Debsdelight72

Sorry just read others!

Great news.

Welshcatlady profile image
Welshcatlady

Glad to hear that your mum has had the op and is on the mend. You must be very relieved. xxx

in reply to Welshcatlady

Hiya, you wouldn't think that my mom as just had major surgery, Just got back from seeing her and she's had a walk around the ward also telling me that you dnt get enough tea in there😅😅😅she must be feeling better.....

Fingers crossed she will be home soon🤞

Welshcatlady profile image
Welshcatlady

That's good news 🙂

HMBradley53 profile image
HMBradley53

it’s been a month and I’m hoping all went well with your mom. How is she doing and has she started treatment

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