Can any long term suffers of fibro and cfs tell me if you ever find yourself ? By this meaning I don’t have a clue where my life’s going anymore I just feel lost and like a bum that can’t provide anymore . This time of year hits home especially as I’d love nothing more than to treat my 6 kids my partner my mother and father to something nice , realistically I haven’t a pot to pee in because I’m in capable of working anymore .
Going off point abit does this crap sorry about the language ever get any easier , any better ? do you ever get used to just existing and not being able to flourish or make good memory’s with your family because tbh I can’t see a light at the end of this tunnel
Moneys not everything but when you struggle to even fuel your car enough to get about your daily buisness ….
I know other members will post quickly, But I wanted to answer your question. Yes, given some time, a person can come to the point where they realize that relationships with other people are the most valuable things. Other people care about you as you care about them. People who love you will be glad that you’re here and will enjoy your sense of humor and what you give to them as an individual person. There will be less focus on things overtime and more focus on relationships in my opinion. I also lost everything such as finances, Travel etc. and have learned to just rest and enjoy the People that I know and the simple things such as birds and flowers and art and music which I never had time for when I was healthy and live a full life in my occupation. So please be encouraged and remember that on very difficult days for people here will reach out and be there for you. 💕There is a saying that “time heals all wounds” but I think also that time does help us heal when our health deteriorates and we have to adjust.
I feel along way from being able to come to terms with this , I’m 35 yrs old I have 6 young children and this horrible illness which is stopping me from allowing them to live a full life , I will never be able to fund any of my daughters weddings I will never be able to fund university for any of them I will never get to take them away on holidays the list is endless of things I can no longer do , I feel inadequate as father because this illness make me inadequate. I don’t think I will ever get through this it breaks me daily 😢
I am so very 😢 sorry. It is quite an upheaval in all of your lives. It can feel completely overwhelming, especially in the beginning where you are. Please receive my support now and know that others are here with you in this (even those who have not yet responded). I will keep you and your family in my prayers.