i noticed some comments on how to share your assets ($$) with your children upon your death. I have 3 adult children and one grandchild. no chance of any further grand kids. i want to leave equal portions to all 4 of them. my eldest daughter doesn't think this is fair... my grandchild is almost 18 and a fatherless lad..his mother has been ill a lot and income is low. i will have his portion under a trust where he can only pull so much a month...for school or just living! am i not being fair??