i have recently moved in with my girlfriend but also stay with my parents. i spoke to the d.w.p.they said i have to sleep at a address 5 nights a week to claim benefit from that address its in possible to say were or how many nights i ail be in-between addresses i would be making a fresh claim every week bearing in mind theres always a forty minute wait on the telephone or more and also calls are not free. my partner owns there property and also has savings of which i have no knowledge of and do not wish to no as it is none of my business and i'am sure they would be reluctant to tell me there private affairs does this mean i can not have a realonship. imagine meeting some one and saying how much is your mortgage and how much savings you got and how many other assets you have how much you earn a month. ???????? can someone tell me away round this invasion of another persons private affairs .