Sometime I need help

[Christinemalon8-]

I hate when I can not sleep,I hate when I feel like nobody cares about me sometime in my mind I feel so lost I'm taking something but I guess it not working and now my jaws are hurt with my legs and arms....I go to the Dr. In 3 weeks what do I tell him don't want him to think I'm going crazy......Me and my life I have to understand I have ppl that love me....maybe it's me and the pain.....I have fell 5 times its just to much for me at 45 my right side hurt so bad from the fall....SMH

[Hidden]

Hi Christine

I'm sorry you are feeling so low. Have you been diagnosed with anything yet and do you take any medication? Not feeling well can be very difficult to live with and no-one seems to understand how we feel. This site has lots of people on it who have different health problems. They are full of helpful advice and offer a friendly ear. You can always find someone to listen to you or to comfort you when you need it. Try to write down how you feel each day and how your pain affects your life. Then your gp can read this instead of you having to remember everything. I hope you find some peace tonight and just know that being in pain makes you think about things in a different way than normal. Focus on the people who love you and the positive things in your life as mood is important to feeling better in yourself. God bless. Mx

[Christinemalon8- in reply to Hidden]

Yes I have lupus and fibromyalgia and I'm taking something.....and thank you so much I need to hear something positive...

[TheAuthor]

I have read your post with so much pain and sorrow for what you are having to endure at this time, and I would not wait 3 weeks to see a doctor, I would ring tomorrow and tell them that it is an emergency and that you need to see somebody please.

There are plenty of medications for Fibro, and if you are genuinely worried about your state of mind then you could ask for a referral to see a counsellor? Please do not suffer in silence as there is plenty of help out there.

I want to genuinely and sincerely wish you all the best of luck.

All my hopes and dreams for you

Ken

[Christinemalon8- in reply to TheAuthor]

Thank you so much that is why I love this group you guys help me so much by listening

[Ginsing]

Hi Christine I am sending you a gentle healing hug! You are low at the moment and I understand completely where you are coming from.

One of the hardest things is to accept we are as we are. If you are having problems with falling talk to your Doctor it may be you have a touch of imbalance from your ears. They may suggest you use a walking stick they certainly help you stay up right.

Take time for yourself relax and try to just visualise a happy place that makes you smile. You can dissapear into this place if needed at once offering comfort security and like this site it understands your problems.

Later on come on,line and join the Coffee Can chat group we are a lovely lot we laugh lots and eat virtual cake!

Sending love and understanding

Ginsing

[Christinemalon8- in reply to Ginsing]

Thank you so much,much love to you u made me smile today and I will join the Coffee Can

[Regnofibro1]

I wish there was a way to give you a big hug right now! I know how it is to fall and hurt your self. I have had my share. We care and are here for you. I know you have people that love you. I also know how it is to feel alone in a crowded room. Try talking it out. Try and rest even if you don't sleep. Put some relaxing music on and let your thoughts just drift. Hold tight to those thoughts that make you smile. Tomorrow I hope will be a better day.

[Christinemalon8- in reply to Regnofibro1]

Thank you so much,much love that's why I love this group

[caninecrazy]

hi,

I agree with all that's been said already. you are not alone as we are all here for you and understand how you are feeling. hope you feel a bit brighter this morning, hugs x

[Christinemalon8- in reply to caninecrazy]

Thank you so much,much love

[dillydally1]

so sorry for the way you are feeling. I think you should see your gp sooner. have you been checked out since your fall. thinking of you x

[Christinemalon8- in reply to dillydally1]

Thank you so much and no I have I go in 3week

[kauto]

You need to keep a diary on what's happening to you then you will have all the facts written down has not easy to remember all.also might help Dr. to see if there is a pattern going on hope you feel better soon and this helps a bit xx

[Christinemalon8- in reply to kauto]

Thank you I have a pain book and I going to the Dr. Soon,much love

[BaffledKaffy]

Christine, I am so sorry for your low feelings now ~ our problems can get even worse after a fall, when you can hurt for weeks from it! I agree with the others who suggest a "diary" of your pain, your feelings, your falls, etc., so they can discern more than what just meets their eye from an exam ...

I hope you can get some help very soon: it is good that your family understands (hope I read that right? Sometimes we can start to feel very isolated when we can't "go and do" because we hurt so badly!

Sending gentle hugs for now ... please keep us posted. bk

[Christinemalon8- in reply to BaffledKaffy]

Thank you so much