Aww well going to a wedding today and I feel like crap and have family coming to stay. So I have my girls trying to do the house for me. Son painted his room and what a mess but if they don't like it well don't have to stay let yous no how it goes.
Gentle hugs to all Bernadette xxxx
Hope the day gets better for you sweetie and your right if they are not grateful then they can go somewhere else 
and well done to your children for helping out as best they can, sending you gently fluffy hugs xx
Hi Bernie sorry you are not feeling up to going out and having visitors staying over.
If you can take even 15 minutes to lie down and block everything out before going and think healing things it may help you to get through the day.
When feeling blue try to think happier things, you are strong and have the strength to see out the day, take time-out breaks when and where you can. It is okay to be you
I'm sending you comforting and supportive fluffies I hope they help 
xxxzebxxx
Oh Bernie, I'm sending all sorts of positive vibes your way to get you through the day, as zeb say am try and take just a little time out just to relax and rest your body before having to cope with the wedding. Hopefully there may be a corner somewhere at the reception where you can take yourself off to if you start to feel rough.
As far as your visitors are concerned, they can either like it or lump it, you have been very generous offering to have them to stay and I'm pleased your girls have helped you, but if the guests don't like, as you say, they can go elsewhere !
Have as good a time as you can and treat yourself with great care
Foggy x
Good morning,iam so sorry to hear that you are feeling so rough.Is there any way you could perhaps just stay at the wedding for half a day so you can go home and relax for a while?then perhaps go back after you have rested?Hope that someone is able to driving you there.If you explain to your family how ill you are feeling then perhaps they can all help out.You need to take regular time out and rest breaks to get through it.Iam sending you lots of healing thoughts xxx
Hope all goes well for you, just make sure you tell people and the ones staying, that you are not well and able to run around looking after them. They're welcome to stay but must respect your illness and pitch in. Best of luck x
I Have an interesting question? 
Felt the need to use a walking stick
Tired, tired, tired!!
Tis one of those things i guess 
How do your other Halfs cope with your illnesses?
