I've been trying to get pregnant for 13 years. I have endometriosis. Had laparoscopy the removed lesions but have been advises by doctors that it was mild and that it should not effect my fertility. Still it is painful when having penetrative sex. Doctors suggested KY gel but have read this stop sprem so started using conceive plus.
My husband has just been told he hasn't got good sprem mobility last month, after years thinking it was my endo that was the problem.
I also have IBD microscopic colitis which can be painful.
I have stopped all pain medication except paracetamol or co-codamol and have refused the pill obviously. The doctors said they can't give me anything if I'm trying to get pregnant.
Any suggestions for pain free sex? I have just about given up trying for a baby as they said I'm to old to get treatment on NHS.
If we pay we could get treatment but my husband hasn't stopped smoking. I think its a waste of time and money if he's not willing to change his lifestyle. I have and it takes two healthy people to make a baby.