Here we go again 🙏🏽

[Nane22]

Hi everyone so after a year off We have gone down the DE route and today I had my first DE transfer ( 6th transfer- first 5 were my own eggs) I am in Spain Alicante by myself and my first transfer on my own too in a new clinic and they were wonderful. They transferred a day 5 grade BB blastocyst. I had a progesterone blood test yesterday and it was a bit low so I’m now on lubion daily and had another blood test before the transfer and levels have come upto a good level now. Feeling a bit nervous 😥 really hope it works I don’t have the mental energy left for more failures.. thank you for reading xx baby dust to everyone on this journey

[Lana89]

Hi lovely just wanted to wish you loads of luck and hope this one is the one

X

[Nane22 in reply to Lana89]

Aw thank you ☺️ xx

[Doodlebug23]

Good luck! My 7th transfer of a day 6 BB is now my daughter!

[Nane22 in reply to Doodlebug23]

Hiii I remember your journey and I’m so so happy for you! Dr Castillo did my transfer this morning ☺️ had a little evening stroll now back to hotel flying back to UK tomorrow early morning. X

[Nane22 in reply to Doodlebug23]

We got 10 eggs 7 fertilised and 2 were grade BB on day 5 one of which they transferred back today and then there are 4 more that are developing a little slower so fingers crossed maybe tomorrow on day 6 they will have some more to freeze. X

[Darcy1996 in reply to Nane22]

That’s exciting!!

[Weegran20 in reply to Nane22]

Good luck on your journey 🙏

[Nane22 in reply to Weegran20]

Thank you ☺️ xx

[SushiTilly]

I’m with you, I came back from Alicante this time last week waiting for results day later. You’re brave and doing well. All the best, fingers crossed for us all xxx

[Nane22 in reply to SushiTilly]

Aw thank you! It is tough this waiting but got to try and stay positive 🙏🏽 aw I have everything crossed for you and I wish you all the very best xx

[Weegran20 in reply to Nane22]

Good luck 🤞

[Nane22 in reply to SushiTilly]

Just read your last post and I’m really praying it’s good news for you. Will be thinking of you 🤞🤞🤞🤞xx

[SushiTilly in reply to Nane22]

Thank you. It’s my round 4 on DE embryo and I have worked so hard. A whole year waiting doing all the RIF clinic assessments then pills then date of another cycle fell a whole year later as result. We had such a lovely time in Alicante this time with sun shining. I am feeling more light in my attitude this time. It’s so hard not knowing which way it will go. I know symptom checking is a waste of time because I had it before and nothing so this time I’m putting any symptoms down to the medicine. I think my body is getting used to the medicine now. I have to wait another three days to get the results. Just for once could the stars align. Honestly no point driving myself nuts so I’m here to help others to keep sane…before I drive myself crazy 🤪

[Nane22 in reply to SushiTilly]

You deserve all the success and I really hope it’s good news for you. And thank you for your kind words.. this is my hardest transfer as me and hubby had fight and he didn’t come. So I’m just trying to keep positive and talk to the lovely people on here. Just got back to UK this morning currently in Costa tired 😴 and not sure if I can face the music going home or maybe just go to mums house. Feeling bit lost but waited a year to get to this point and I don’t want to ruin it by feeling sad. So it’s lovely to read messages on here it stops me from breaking. Xx

[Weegran20 in reply to Nane22]

Kiss and makeup and support each other 🥰

[Nane22 in reply to Weegran20]

I’ll try 🤞🤞 xx

[SushiTilly in reply to Nane22]

Bless you, it is not good to feel isolated so definitely get over to your mum place to chill out and get moral support. When you are ready it might help just to sit and actively listen to him and ask him to do the same. Hopefully you both find an agreement of what you both need. It is hard when both parties have different point of view it is also ivf is a MoFo so strains relationships. Let the air clear and protect yourself emotionally and rest up.

I have praying for us all. And whatever happens I’m going to plant some bulbs because either way something got to grow and bloom somewhere. Xx

[minny_223]

Sending sticky dust to your little embryo ✨ Fingers crossed that this is your time 💖

[Nane22 in reply to minny_223]

Thank you minny _223 ☺️ wishing you all the best on your journey xx

[Elmo13]

Wishing you all the luck in the world and sending loads of positive vibes your way!! Xx

[Nane22 in reply to Elmo13]

Aw thank you so much ☺️ wishing you all the best on your journey too xx

[Kitkat10]

good luck xx thinking of you. My daughter is via egg donation and I wish you the best of luck that this transfer brings you your baby xx

[Nane22 in reply to Kitkat10]

Thank you ☺️ xx just trying to keep positive 🤞

[BelovedofGod]

I will you all the best. And all of us on this journey, we will all smile in the end.

[Nane22 in reply to BelovedofGod]

Thank you ☺️ xx yes I hope we all smile together when we finish this journey

[Pink090]

Sending you lots of baby dust! I really hope it works for you this time. I had a transfer on Monday, so in the TWW now too 💪we have got this x

[Nane22 in reply to Pink090]

Aw hey TWw buddy! Thank you ☺️ how are you feeling? Did you have a fresh or frozen transfer? My blood test date is 5th Feb which seems early as it’s a week today! But clinic said that’s ok as it’s a fresh transfer but if I wanted to test at home then u have to wait till 8th February. Wishing you lots of baby dust and hopefully we’ll both get good news 😊 xx

[Monsie97]

Good luck, sending positive baby vibes xx

[Nane22 in reply to Monsie97]

Thank you ☺️ xx

[Rookery17]

Good luck sending lots of baby dust 🍀 xx

[Nane22 in reply to Rookery17]

Thank you ☺️ xx

[Jam1111111]

Hi just want to wish you the best of luck! I'm preparing for my 2nd DE transfer in a few weeks.

Xx

[Nane22 in reply to Jam1111111]

Aw sending you big hugs and baby dust hopefully this will be the one for you 😊 xx

Thank you xx

[Kmcdon]

Sending lots of luck! I had my baby from my 5th DE transfer at a clinic in Alicante! Xx

[Nane22 in reply to Kmcdon]

Aw that’s nice to hear! Thank you ☺️ xx I found Alicante to be lovely way more relaxed vibes than my last clinic in London

[Kmcdon in reply to Nane22]

Definitely! Me too. I'm hoping you get good news soon.xx

[Tinkertinkerbell]

Good luck - im currently feeding my nearly 8 week old baby from a donor egg I had multiple implantation failures too from my own eggs before I went with DE. I got there in the end. x

[Nane22 in reply to Tinkertinkerbell]

Thank you ☺️ and congratulations! I’m glad you got the here.. love happy endings xx

[Christianbaby]

That’s a lot to take on, especially being on your own in a new clinic—but it’s great that the team was so kind and that your progesterone levels are looking good now. I totally get the mix of nerves and hope.

We also went down the DE route and had our treatment at Dunya IVF. The whole process was stressful, emotional, and honestly, some days I wasn’t sure I had the strength to keep going. But in the end, we had our baby, and it was all worth it.

I really hope this is the one for you. Be kind to yourself in the wait, and sending you so much hope and baby dust! xx

[Nane22 in reply to Christianbaby]

Thank you ☺️ it is a lot to take it that I think for me I just try to distract myself and keep busy. I’m scared if I stop or start thinking I just won’t cope. Currently trying to not cry in the middle of Costa 🥹 everyone’s messages are so nice and I’m really grateful that there are understanding and supportive people out there xx

[M_fox]

good luck 🍀🤞 Best thing we ever did xxx

Take it easy, my transfers were in Alicante (no baths , pool, and take gentle walks!) and take it easy travelling back xx

[Nane22 in reply to M_fox]

Thank you ☺️ xx I’ve made it back to UK now just need a good night sleep x

[M_fox in reply to Nane22]

Yes and relax.. feet up and do nothing.. I know people say to just do your normal routine but with all the travel and stress that most people don’t need to go through.. you deserve a few days of watching your favourite films, reading books and chilling out. xxx

[Nane22 in reply to M_fox]

thank you xx

[Freeway24]

Hi. I just wanted to wish you luck. I am sending you lots of baby dust. I am on the donor egg abroad journey too. I hope this one sticks. 🙏🤞I hope you manage to relax as much as possible and your 2ww goes quick. X

[Nane22 in reply to Freeway24]

Thank you ☺️ wishing you all the best on your journey I hope 2025 is our year xx

[Freeway24 in reply to Nane22]

Aww thanks so much. Yes let's hope 2025 is our year! Xx

[Darcy1996]

all the best of luck to you - you can’t be alone with this group at your fingertips!

I’m looking at the same clinic, different doctor, they seem wonderful!

[Nane22 in reply to Darcy1996]

Thank you ☺️ honestly you have all kept me sane and helping me to stay positive!

Aw it’s great there I was really comfortable. If you have any questions about the clinic itself feel free to PM me. Wishing you all the best xx

[Lana89]

Hi lovely if I was you I’d go home and get some rest if your hubbys there just say your going to bed you don’t feel great will talk later at least then you have broke the ice and your home take your meds up and drinks and snacks up and have a bit of a chill day don’t sit feeling sad in Costa lovely what ever as gone on it will blow over you have put yourself through a lot just to get this far going to another country on your own is brave if you can do that you can do anything it’s about you and your treatment now so get in bed you will feel better after a sleep and tell your hubby he will after talk to the hand till you feel up to it

Sending you a big hug lovely

X

[Nane22 in reply to Lana89]

Thank you xx I just tried to go home but he’s locked the door and won’t let me in. So I’m going to travel to my mums now. 😔 I’ve given in and cried

[BenjitheG]

Sending sticky vibes for this transfer and the very best of luck. I know what is like to wait a year and then suddenly it feels unreal when you reach the time of transfer.

I have been recently diagnosed with a genetic condition which makes me even more certain we made the right choice switching to the donor egg route otherwise we would have to screen any embryos for it and I had two failed cycles and now low AmH. My transfer is next Tuesday (eek!) and I can’t believe it’s now next week. I’m 8 years into this and really hope it’s the lucky round for us both.

Keep strong your doing brilliantly! Xx

[Nane22 in reply to BenjitheG]

Aw good luck for next week! Dont worry you’re going to do great! If you want to let me know how it goes.. you got this ☺️

thank you xx

[Lana89]

You no what lovely you had your little cry now waste no more tears on him cheeky fucker locking the door men make me laugh it’s all about them they want to try and go through what we go through as I said I think your one brave lady so don’t let him spoil it for you

You can not beat spending time with your mum anyway so he as done you a favour go have a chat with your mum and off load and then get some rest lovely you will need it

Don’t over think this bullshit with him he is a grown man he will after get over it you just stay chilled at your mums and take care of yourself

If you need a chat later after your rest we are all here make sure you get something to eat

X

[May37]

Wishing you alm best. I gad De in Greece and have lovely daughter

[Nane22 in reply to May37]

Thank you ☺️ aw that’s lovely xx

[Anita1216]

wishing you the very best, and congratulations in advance.

[Nane22 in reply to Anita1216]

Thank you ☺️ xx I hope this will be the one pls