1st round with de cycle

[Rookery17]

Just a rant I guessSo I'm 11 days past my 5day embryo transfer my official test date is the Monday 23rd. I caved and tested early yesterday with a first response rapid result test and it was negative. I can't believe it I felt Soo good about this one it was a 4ab so good embryo I've been on x2 lubion x3 cyclogest and estrogen tablets 3x times a day I haven't told my clinic I just feel it so pointless using the drugs when there's nothing there? No period I guess cuz of the meds I just feel now it's all been for nothing I do have one left in the freezer and then another round after that but Im jus so deflated and gutted 😞

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Tested bit early - hard to do but please do not retest till your OTD Continue with healthy diet and drink plenty of fluids Try to keep yourself busy - go for a walk in the spring sunshine - read a good book Be kind to yourself Continue with any meds you were given as directed

Thinking of you

Janet-Partner

[Rookery17 in reply to JA-fnuk]

Thank you x

[Swimming87]

Things can turn around, try to keep busy and do not test until the test day! I know how hard it is ..been there..but you are strong! Keep up the medications and follow through as your clinic advised. Wishing you all the best x

[Rookery17 in reply to Swimming87]

Thank you yea I jus have to continue for now x

[Endofitall]

I am sorry lovely. It’s heartbreaking. OTD at both clinics I’ve been at has been 11dp5dt. Could you speak to your clinic? Is this the first euploid you have transferred? Sending hugs

[Rookery17 in reply to Endofitall]

Thank you they emailed to check in with me yesterday and I said I tested early and they said it was to early and to try and avoid testing and wait for my otd so I just have to continue I guess. I had a transfer 2years ago but was a chemical x

[Endofitall in reply to Rookery17]

I’m sorry that’s really tough to make you continue 😓x

[Rookery17 in reply to Endofitall]

I know x

[Isabelclaire]

Firstly im so so sorry you are in this sotuation. My clinics OTD is 11dp5dt, and if it was completely negative would have told me to stop meds, so I know what you mean about wanting to stop, meds are so expensive aswell, and it does feel pointless. I feel many clinics OTD is to many days. I don't think you have teared to early.

[Rookery17 in reply to Isabelclaire]

Thank you I jus have to carry on as they said it was too early x

[RenRemSasse]

Hi.

I say I understand how you feel but it’s not enough. It’s so hard to express how sad we feel when we go through this. I think all we can do is hope until we have our period again 😞. You’re brave and you did everything you could.

[Rookery17 in reply to RenRemSasse]

Thank u so much for your reply x

[Angelikid88]

stay strong and wait until monday dear

[Rookery17 in reply to Angelikid88]

Thank you x

[Pau86]

I’m sorry lovely. I have my test on Sunday, and I feel like you please wait until Monday and do the test again. You’re almost there! Sending you lots of love, dear.

[Rookery17 in reply to Pau86]

Thank u so much for your reply x

[Milly121]

definitely test again , could be too early

Try your best for your own wellbeing to remain calm xox

[Rookery17 in reply to Milly121]

Thank you yeah I have to wait unfortunately anyway fingers crossed 🤞 x