Why all going wrong always with me 😭

[Kaarma]

Today is my 10dpt of 5dt. Did the urine pregnancy test and showed up negative😭. I used the strips that can measure hcg more than 25u/ml. Not sure whether hcg quantity was there to detect or I’m not pregnant.

But this time I was confident the way my symptoms showed up and expected the implantation has taken place. But now the result is different😔

Do you know which brand of pregnancy kit give accurate results?

My earlier freshET I was very conscious and didn’t do much activity. But this time I was very active so that I thought they should be clear blood supply to uterus. Did one hour of walking and light exercise, As I read this some where. Inspite of asking for Estrogen supplements and blood clotting medicine, they denied prescribing it to me. They said this will be modified FET and no medication expect the progesterone pressure. I am not sure how will the private clinics work. I hope they monitor all the observations viz., scans, blood test so that there is every precaution taken. I am left with only one last attempt.

I’m lost whether to go to private clinic or stop this journey here.

I don’t have the courage and energy in me to take up again one more round of cycle treatment 😭

Any suggestions and advise welcome please 🙏

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi. Carry on with any prescribed medication and test first urine of the day, recommended by yout clinic. Eat pineapple core to he.lp ptrvent clot formation and ensure dood blood role. If this is megative, perhaps get your Faallopian tubes her,ed for blockage and dealt with so no lubrication can leak into womb.maybe a hysteroscopy if not done to check womb and biopsy lining. Mention low dose soluble aspirin or heparin to help blood flow. Keep on top of any counselling if offered have a look at bica.net I wish you well. Diane

[Kaarma in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you Diane, I had my fibroids removed via hysterectomy so there they did scan the uterus. Doctor confirmed Fallopian tubes and uterus are fine. There is no problem. I called the clinic to report my result they asked to retest after 2 days. So I’m already psychologically down and accepting the failure. I think what I saw today morning is the reality. There are very chances the negative to turn positive until there is a miracle which is not for me 😭

[Twiglet2]

I’m so sorry youve had a negative test. Please don’t start to think it’s anything you could have done or changed! Most of the time it’s down to the actual embryo itself and no matter whether you exercised or didn’t if it was going to stick it would have. Absolutely ask about the blood thinners and anything else they might suggest though for next time but please remember 2 transfers is not enough for most women to get pregnant and find that viable embryo, even with IVF there is a lot of luck and unknowns still involved (they just don’t tell us this much!) thinking of you and be kind to yourself 💜 xx

[Bimsie1310]

I know your pain well as I've had 4 failed transfers. It's very easy to blame yourself and think maybe if I'd done that differently it would have worked. Mine have all been private and it's also hard to get extra meds through them as they tell me they aren't needed for most women. I've also tried all the old wife tales and home remedies and they made no difference.

All you can do is be kind to yourself, take time to heal, this is a massive loss, and in time decide if you are ready to try again. X