Heading for round three after two miscarriages. Success stories needed please

[A_Fortune]

Hello there,

So after two rounds of IVF and two miscarriages, we are going in for round three. Whilst we do not want to give up, it's hard to believe that this time will be any different.

Anyone with a similar story that got to have a happy ending?

Thanks!

A

[Seren0119]

Each embryo and round is different - my daughter was forth transfer after two miscarriages. Don’t give up x

[Citizenerased83]

Really hope it works for you this time. I too, have had two miscarriages and know how incredibly difficult it is to keep going with treatment. Wishing you so much luck and a big sprinkling of baby dust. Xx

[Lolalules]

wishing you all the luck… i had four miscarriages and two failed transfers before we had our little girl (now 2 weeks old). A friend had four rounds of IVF and conceived on seventh transfer - it really does just take one. I have everything crossed for you xx

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry, it’s really hard to have faith in the process after losses.

I had 2 miscarriages within 6 months of each other, followed by a negative on our next cycle, and am now 37 weeks pregnant so the tide can definitely turn for you. Wishing you loads and loads of luck xx

[A_Fortune in reply to Solly-44]

thank you very much. May I ask, did you do anything after the two losses that changed the outcome? For me what feels weird is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.

[Solly-44 in reply to A_Fortune]

So we did 6 transfers in all and have a 3 year old from one of those. Other than adding lubion for 2 of the cycles (both ended in a bfn) nothing was ever changed. I get what you’re saying though, I felt exactly the same. My clinic very much had a 1 size fits all approach which frustrated me no end but we stuck with them for cost and convenience I guess. My current pregnancy was a spontaneous one just as we were getting ready to transfer our 10 & 11th embryos. They kept saying it’s a numbers game which for us I actually think it was (I got a lot of eggs but they were poor quality) but obviously that’s not the case for everyone so it’s hard to know what to do for the best. Xx

[Esb27]

Good luck with the next round, I really get how you're feeling. Going in for my 2nd FET on Saturday after 4 miscarriages and 2 ectopics. This journey is sooo hard, please be kind to yourself. I find that what helps me is coming on here and chatting to people who have experienced similar things plus also having a rough plan in place in case the same thing happens again (i.e extra testing to be done etc).

Sorry this isn't a success story but just a note to say you're not alone and we're all rooting for you!!x