BFN guys

[Meli_]

hey guys I have had a BFN on this try it’s my second go after trying for around 6 years. I have had a roller coaster of emotions and feel quite disappointed but still have some hope for the future. I have just moved home so that is stressful and has me feeling disorganised but working on trying to get a routine together so I can be healthy. I’ve drowned my sorrows, eaten all the foods I want have taken time out for a couple of weeks but now I’m working on being focused again and being positive

[Faith103]

Hi,

I am sorry to read this. I totally understand how you are feeling as I also had my BFN yesterday. It’s still so raw.

I am trying to get on with life as you do and trying to keep positive about the future. It’s so difficult it really is.

It’s good that you have a positive mind going forward. Take lots of time for yourself, again very sorry to read this. xxx

[Annbiel]

hi Meli! I also had my BFN yesterday. I actually had my blood test yesterday - even though I told the doctors that I got my period over the weekend they insisted I would do a beta. OBV came out negative but it was like an extra slap in the face to read the email with the results from the clinic ;). My partner and I are trying to induce a bit of humour to our journey and we always think of some crazy way of life we could live if we end up childless, like we‘ll be travelling the world forever or live on a tropical island etc

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Taking time out is a good idea - rest well and look after yourself Make sure have people around you who can support you And of course keep talking to your OH

Sending you both a big hug and good luck for the future

Janet