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Feeling a bit meh.

4DP 5DT and I’m just having feelings it hasn’t worked out.

Since I came off contraception a few years ago, I’ve been super in tune with my body and even the silliest things such as higher sex drive, more irritable, slight cramps, headaches, happy or not, will indicate certain point of my cycle. I have all the usual signs of my period coming (the irritable and higher sex drive!), whilst being in tune with your body is great as you know what to expect, within this situation waiting to see if your pregnant it’s just not so great! With those indicators I just feel this round hasn’t been the one for us. I also have a wedding on Friday and would love to have a bevvy as it’s for close friends, but obviously can’t as I’m waiting to see if I’m pregnant and thats also just very annoying lol!

I was just having a bit of a rant, not sure if any of this makes much sense if im honest, sorry ladies 🤣

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Hi!

So I had my transfer a day before I attended a wedding also ! It’s so hard isn’t it, I was sure it hadn’t worked as well as I just had a feeling from day 3.. then day 5 I got my first very faint line in the evening I was so surprised. Not out the woods yet like only 5 weeks on Friday but still!

So hopefully it’s all worth it for you, good luck x

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Mlove12 in reply toHopeIVFul

Hey,

Oh that’s amazing, congratulations! Did you test 5 days after a 5 day transfer?

It is very annoying as I love my wine, and I know it sounds awful but I hate the thought of missing out on a fun wedding partying if it’s not successful! But fingers crossed🤞X

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HopeIVFul in reply toMlove12

Haha I felt exactly the same 🤣 I told everyone I just didn’t drink anymore it had been that long to be fair..

Yes I tested from day 3 I know your not meant to but I also did it with my first transfer and got my first positive on day 7 and he’s 15 months now. I like to ease myself into a continuous negative then get my hopes up for 14 days

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JA-fnukPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Sure you will enjoy the wedding try some non- alcoholic cocktails - virgin wine spritzer-virgin mojito - non alcoholic moscow mule . Time still not out on 2WW so will be thinking of you on your OTD .Sending a big hug and lots of good luck wishes

Janet

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Mlove12 in reply toJA-fnuk

Thank you Janet! :) x

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