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Hello, I’m hoping to find some ladies who are currently going through IVF. I am currently going through my second round. We had our first round in 2019 and it was a success and we now a beautiful little girl and we are hoping to give her a sibling.

I found that forums really helped during our first round, especially during the 2ww!

Hoping to hear from some of you lovely ladies 😊

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Swee31_21

Hello Suzannexo I am currently going through a second round of IVF currently had my transfer today. When is yours? We have had one before which wasn’t successful so fingers crossed this is our time. I find the forum so so helpful and good place to chat to others that are going through the same thing 💫

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

Hello Swee31_21

We are due to have egg collection on Friday and then hopefully transfer will be either Monday or Wednesday.

How are you feeling after your transfer? Wishing you the best of luck 🤞

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

Thanks for asking! I feel fine little cramps here and there but probably just me I suppose looking for something. But honestly feel ok and have been off work so just resting and going for short walks this time round xxx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

I remember feeling every little niggle or cramp! I hope you’re still feeling Okay x

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

Yes I’m doing okay this time actually, little emotional at times and feeling tired alot lol but that’s probably because I’m not doing an awful lot being off work. I’ve felt niggles and cramps day 2DPT and nothing else really from that day xxx

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

When are you starting your round of IVF? Xx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

We’ve already started we are due to have our transfer tomorrow 🙂I hope you’re still doing okay when is your test date? X

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

I’ve had spotting since Sunday it seems to of gone now. It was only when I wiped, came with some Back ache and light cramps Sunday and yesterday. I got a little freaked out at first, thinking the worse. But after I spoke with my clinic I’ve been calm since my OTD is Friday this week xx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

That must have been worrying, but I’m glad for had stopped. How are you feeling about your test date? X

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

I’m feeling anxious a have been feeling sick for a few mornings now which is strange I’ve had sickness but usually doesn’t last long xx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

Good luck with your test today 🤞 sending lots of luck xx

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

We got our BFP!!! I’m still in complete shock, I know it’s early days but I’m on cloud nine 😁❤️ Xxx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

Congratulations 🎉 I’m over the moon for you. I hope you have a healthy happy pregnancy 🤰 xx

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

Thank you! 😀 honestly would of never imagined seeing those lines. How are you getting on with your treatment? Xx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

Isn’t it just the best feeling? I hope you’re feeling well.

My OTD is Monday but I’m not very hopeful I’ve had cramps on and off since my transfer xx

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

It really is, don’t loose hope just yet. I also had cramps on and off both times we did IVF and this time was successful xxxx

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Suzannexo in reply to Swee31_21

Thank you, I had them last time but I don’t remember them being as frequent. They have calmed down now though. How are you feeling? Xx

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Swee31_21 in reply to Suzannexo

Mine calmed down too toward the end of the TWW. I’m feeling ok actually, having Nausea xxx

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Cricket2

Hi Suzannexo, I am also on my second cycle, first one wasn’t successful unfortunately. But fingers crossed for my transfer in a week or so !

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Suzannexo in reply to Cricket2

Hello Criket2

I am sorry to hear that your first cycle wasn’t successful. I really hope this cycle works. When are you due for egg collection?

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Cricket2 in reply to Suzannexo

Eggs collected a couple of months ago, had a double transfer from the ones collected which didn’t work and we have one left !

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Suzannexo in reply to Cricket2

Fingers crossed that this is the one! Xx

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Luamber

Hello

We are about to embark on our second IVF journey having had our beautiful baby girl in 2021.

We would now love to get her a sibling too.

I feel this second time round is far more scary than the first as now you are parents, you know all the emotions attached!

Would love to stay in touch through our journeys as they are so similar 😊 x

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Suzannexo in reply to Luamber

Hello Luamber

I hope you’re well. It’s lovely to hear from you especially because our journeys are so similar!

We are due to have egg collection on Friday and I’m super nervous, last time we had 10 eggs but only one fertilised and we were super lucky that it was a success!

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xIVFWarriorx

Hi Suzanne. I too am going through my second round of ICSI. I have my egg collection scheduled for tomorrow. My first round sadly ended in miscarriage so of course I’m hoping that this is our round. How far through your second round are you?

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

Hello xDG_x

We are also having ICSI.

I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

I’m due to have egg collection on Friday. Hoping for some good eggs 🥚

Best of luck with your egg collection!

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

Thank you lovely. Had my egg collection today and got 14 eggs, 2 more than last time so rather chuffed with that.

Best of luck for yours on Friday 🙂 x

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

How are your little eggs doing? We had collecting today and had 24 eggs but they called to say that could only use 9. Which is a little disappointing 😔 xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

So far so good, thank you. We got our day 1 call yesterday to advise that they were able to perform ICSI on 11 of my eggs and 8 of those have fertilised. Will get a day 3 call tomorrow with a further update but I’m scheduled for transfer on Monday.

Sorry to hear that they could only use 9 of your eggs but that’s still amazing. I know it’s cliche, but it does only take one so you have 9 times that amount to work with xx

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

Just read this back. We definitely did not have 24 eggs we had 14 😂😂

We had a call this morning to say 3 have fertilised 😍 we will have another call on Monday to discuss next steps.

How was your call today? Xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

That makes much more sense. Glad you got it clarified 🙂. That’s amazing that 3 have fertilised!

All 8 of my embryos are doing well at the moment according to the embryologist I spoke to this morning. Fingers crossed it continues. I’m scheduled for transfer at 10.15am Monday morning 😬 xx

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

How was your transfer? Did you have a single transfer? We are due to have transfer tomorrow 🙂 x

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

My transfer went smoothly, thank you. We had one 4AA graded embryo transferred which our embryologist said was the best quality and exactly where he wanted to see it for a day 5 embryo. We’ve also been lucky enough to have 2 frozen yesterday (both 4BB) and a further 2 frozen today (one 4AB and one 3AB). Pretty happy that 5 out of our 8 were decent enough for transfer/freezing. I’m feeling really good and optimistic about this one 🥰. How exciting! I wish you all the best for your transfer. Please do let me know how it goes! X

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to xIVFWarriorx

How did your transfer go? Xx

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

That’s amazing to have so many frozen! I’m so glad your transfer went well, sending you all the luck on the world.

Our transfer went well thank you we had a top grade embryo transferred and one has been frozen 😃

Xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

Thank you love. That's amazing news! It's certainly comforting knowing you have another embryo sitting if required, isn't it? Wishing you all the best for your 2ww too!

Fingers crossed we both have some good luck on our OTD's 🥰🤞 xx

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

How are you feeling? When is your OTD? X

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

I’m feeling ok thanks. My OTD is Monday 11th. I’ve been testing every day since transfer (initially to test out the trigger shot) and I am getting positive results back but they’re not very dark. I did get tests that aren’t overly sensitive though so that may be why.

How are you feeling? When’s your OTD? X

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

Mines the same… 11th July. Oh that’s amazing, how exciting, I think it’s good to get any positive result so early onI’m trying not to do any tests, but I’m feeling anxious 😬

I’ve had a lots of cramps but now my boobs are sore, I just don’t know what to think! Xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

It is. I guess I'm just struggling to enjoy it. I had a positive test during my first cycle last year on OTD and by the time I got to the 7 week scan, there was a sac but nothing in it. I had endless visits back and forth to check if it was ectopic, the pregnancy didn't end on it's own so I had a medical miscarriage procedure. The only difference between that cycle and this at the moment is that I started spotting on 8dp5dt, had a heavy red bleed pretty much all day on 9dp5dt (equivalent of today) and then it ended on 10dp5dt. So far (and fingers crossed) there's been no bleeding/spotting so I'm trying to be positive and trust that I'm not out yet. Fingers crossed I haven't just jinxed myself and it continues as is.

I'm going out to get some FRER tests at the weekend so hopefully those being a lot more sensitive than the tests I have currently will give me a bit more confidence. I've not had a massive amount of symptoms they've mostly been on and off but I've had some cramps and sore boobs at times, feeling ridiculously tired and really quite bloated but the weirdest symptom I've had pretty much constantly since transfer is feeling dizzy. It's so tough because a lot of the symptoms could be from drugs/progesterone but it could also be pregnancy.

Well done for having the strength to hold out and not test early. I did hold out until I had that heavy red bleed last time so I decided to try a different method this time. Not sure testing each day has brought me any less worry or stress to be honest. Fingers crossed we both have some good news coming our way

🤞🥰 xx

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

I am so sorry to hear this. It must have been heart breaking. I really hope you have a healthy and happy pregnancy.

I know what you mean it’s so hard to know what’s a pregnancy symptom and what is a side effect from the progesterone, The 2ww is a big kind game! Have you done anymore tests?

Xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

Thank you lovely. Me too 🤞🏼.

Yeah, it really is a difficult one. I haven’t really had any ‘symptoms’ the last few days as such other than boobs hurting a little bit here and there. I’ve still been testing everyday and they’re all positive so I’m just hoping and praying it continues. I have a blood test at my GP next week so hopefully they’ll check everything is in order between OTD Monday and my 7wk scan.

Are you still holding out for OTD before testing? If I don’t speak to you before then, I wish you all the best. Hopefully we both get the results we want from this cycle! ❤️ Xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to xIVFWarriorx

Hey lovely. Just wanted to wish you all the best for today. Sadly it’s not my time (again). My tests have gotten lighter since Friday and are now negative this morning 😭. Here’s hoping you’ve had better luck xx

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Suzannexo in reply to xIVFWarriorx

I am so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of hugs.

I had a blood test done this morning and had a call this afternoon and It’s positive. I’m so shocked xx

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xIVFWarriorx in reply to Suzannexo

Congratulations Suzanne. That’s wonderful news! Xx

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RDT144

Hii, I’ve just started. Will have my baseline scan on the 5th. Currently on northisterone. Will be going down the same path as yourself for ICSI. Would you recommend anything to myself?.. All the best

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Purplehedgehog87

Im on day 9 of stims of second round for PCOS, first didn't work, feeling in a better place this time but more side effects (higher dose of menopur) just learning to take each day. RDT144 best advice I can give (having been a right mess last time) is LOTs of self care and love, take time off if you have to. Also learning to live day by day not thinking ahead and not getting stuck on a plan or timeline- things will constantly change and just got to roll with it! accessing counsellor linked with the clinic is helpful too

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RDT144 in reply to Purplehedgehog87

I needed to hear that 🥰 I was struggling to get out of bed today. I guess we have the good days and the bad and that’s alright..

Hi Suzannexo, I'm hoping to have my baseline scan this week, to get the thumbs up to start my meds. I've only just joined, so still finding my way around the forum, but would love to connect. Good luck!

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Hello 👋

Oh best of luck with your scan 🤞 is this your first cycle?

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lmno

Hi Suzannexo, in a very similar situation here! We had a wee girl through ICSI in 2020 and just started another round. In fact today was my first down regulation injection! We went through so much in previous rounds (failed IVF with no fertilised embryos, ICSI with 3 transfers - 1 BFN, 1 miscarriage and 1 success).... I almost can't believe we're starting it all over again. What stage are you at in your cycle? How are you feeling about this round? x

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Suzannexo in reply to lmno

Hello

Goodness you have been on a rollercoaster!

We are also having ICSI, due to have egg collection on Friday. Last cycle we only had one embryo which is now our little girl. Our consultant has told us it could be the same outcome, but I’m so nervous that we won’t have any.

How are you feeling after your first injection?

I’m quite nervous this time, but the meds haven’t made me feel poorly this time so that’s a positive!

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lmno in reply to Suzannexo

Oh bless you, it's so hard with so much being outside of your control eh? I'm so pleased your embryo led to a successful pregnancy. I was freaking out a bit as my AMH has plummeted since our last fresh cycle in 2019 and they said I'd probably have far fewer eggs collected this time... but they also kept saying it only takes one and that quality is more important than quantity so trying to hold onto that!

How are you feeling about your egg collection on Friday?

That's great you didn't feel poorly on the meds this time! I felt awful last time but I'm only on day 2 and so far so good. It definitely feels different this time as life feels so busy (working full time and running after a wild toddler) which in a way helps as it doesn't feel so all consuming, but also hard to carve out time to process feelings and make space for feeling rubbish.

Hope the next few days feel peaceful for you ahead of Friday x

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lmno in reply to lmno

Hope your egg collection goes well today Suzanne - thinking of you!

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Suzannexo in reply to lmno

Hello, how are you feeling? Well I hope 🤞

I’ve been super busy as it’s our little girls 2nd birthday this weekend. I’m so excited!

Tell me about it! Life is so busy with a toddler and work! I cannot believe we are in June already! I feel like this cycle has gone by so quick.

Egg collection went well we had 14 eggs but this afternoon they called to say they could only use 9 and the sperm that we had frozen is poor and the fresh sample contained 0 sperm, which is obviously upsetting. They said they have done the best they can and they will call on the morning so fingers crossed for another miracle 🤞 xx

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lmno in reply to Suzannexo

Hey, oh happy birthday to your wee one! Hope you have a lovely time celebrating. Wow that’s a great number of eggs but must have been difficult news about the sperm. Crossing my fingers for a good outcome for you. I’m super tired and grumpy but otherwise doing ok - I felt this way last time on suprecur too 😩 x

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Suzannexo in reply to lmno

Thank you, we had a family tea party. She had the best day. We have 3 little embryos and will be having a single transfer tomorrow 🤞

That’s horrible I hope you feel more yourself soon, horrible medicine! Xx

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lmno in reply to Suzannexo

Wow three embryos is amazing! Wishing you all the luck in the world with your transfer tomorrow 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 Xx

Hey! We are trying to make a sibling too - trying naturally with ovulation induction and soon to use our remaining frozen embryo from a failed previous cycle.

IVF didn't work for us last time, but we conceived shortly after the failed cycle to have our little girl who's now 3.5.

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Suzannexo in reply to

Hello,

I’m sorry to hear that IVF didn’t work for you but amazing that you were able to conceive your little girl 😊

Best of luck with your journey 🤞

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Abs37

I had my FET transfer today ❤️ Good luck on your journey. We started the process nearly 7 years ago and we’re lucky enough to have my lovely boy from our first attempt and have been trying to give him a sibling since! Xx

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Suzannexo in reply to Abs37

Hello, lovely to hear about your transfer. How are you feeling?

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Abs37

Tired! But excited thank you. Good luck with your call tomo - I hope you get good news 🤞🏻Xx

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CJones40

Just wanted to say hi, I’m in a very similar situation to you. We did ICSI in 2019 and my son was born in December 2019. We only had 1 embryo and he worked. So we’re trying to make a sibling now. Im going in for egg collection in the morning.. hence the fact that I can’t sleep and I’m writing comments on here at 4.30am. I’m so nervous for egg collection. I was really uncomfortable during it last time so not looking forward to the experience again!

Anyway good luck and I hope that you’ve had further calls with good news by now! 🤞 xx

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Suzannexo in reply to CJones40

Hello CJones40

So lovely to hear your story about your little miracle.

How was egg collection?

We have 3 embryos this time which was a shock 😃

Xx

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CJones40 in reply to Suzannexo

Egg collection was much better this time. I don’t remember much of it to be honest. Just the wait for the calls now. We had good news this morning- of the 9 eggs retrieved 8 were mature enough and all 8 fertilised so we’ve just got to keep our fingers crossed for the next call now.

Well done!! 3 embryos is amazing! Have you had one put back in nice and warm yet? Xx

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Suzannexo in reply to CJones40

I hope you’re recovering well from the egg collection. How are you embryos doing?

Our transfer was yesterday and all went smoothly so now I’m in the 2ww 😃 xx

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CJones40 in reply to Suzannexo

We had an update this morning and had really good news. 5 embryos are top quality and the other 3 are average so booked in for transfer Sat morning.

Aww congratulations, hope that embaby is nice and comfy in there. Keeping everything crossed for you!! 🤞🤞 the 2ww is torture! 🙈 xx

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EBeee

HelloWishing all of you all the best with your cycles!

We are about to start final cycle - number 7 - next month, I start the northisterone tomorrow. Aiming for egg collection week starting 25th July all being well so a bit behind you all.

Cycle 3 worked but sadly miscarried at 9 weeks.

Hoping it’s lucky number 7!

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