One follicle and considering egg retrieval .. any successes?

[Infragilis]

Hi, so I have low amh and high FSH and have only ever had a maximum of three follicles after stimulation. This time I have one and we are considering going in for egg retrieval for just the one. Any success stories with just one? I feel like we are doing all this for nothing.

[Miracle43]

Hey lovely, I only had one follicle on a previous cycle, my clinic gave me the opinion to switch to IUI rather than canx the cycle. I didn’t have the option to go to collection. It only takes one as they say 🤞🏻. What are you thinking?

If you don’t go ahead with collection will they charge a canx fee? X

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

There are no costs no, we are thinking it's worth a try although I feel like the chances of it working are so small.

I hope your IUI went ok.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

If there’s no costs then that’s brilliant. Are you NHS? It only takes one ☺️🤞🏻 there’s always chance.

Thank you, unfortunately it didn’t work for us. Still trying to get our 🌈.

Wishing luck x

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

I hope you have a good next cycle. I'm sure we will end up starting a new cycle too. Thanks for your messages and I wish you the best of luck.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

Keep positive ☺️ Keep me posted

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

We went for it and got the embryo. They transferred on day 2 as they said we only had one so they didn't want to risk loosing it. Will see what happens now although I have realistic hopes.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

It only takes one and it’s back where it belongs. Keep positive, keep your feet warm and keep the blood pumping. Keep me posted. Wishing you lots of luck xx

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

Thank you xx I hope all is well with you.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

I’m ok thank you. Just waiting for dates. My clinic has advised IUI. I still can’t get my head around it. I’m over 40 so know they don’t usually recommend it. What will be.

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

You could try it for one cycle if they recommended it and see how it goes. If you don't get a positive outcome you could then discuss other options.

I wasn't happy with the protocol I was given this time but I decided to trust them. Till now it hasn't gone too badly.

If you have concerns, discuss these with them.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

I’ve done a few cycles of IVF, I’ve been lucky enough to have eggs and they have all fertilised, nothing to freeze but they have had a day 3 and 5 transfer. Unfortunately they haven’t stuck. I have managed to conics naturally 3 times all ending in miscarriage. They clinic feels I have more success naturally 🤷🏼‍♀️ Xx

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

After my miscarriage the clinic recommended I do a hysteroscopy after egg collection to try reduce miscarriage happening again. Then they will freeze the embryos (if we get any) and do a frozen transfer. Didn't do that this time but will do it in next cycle if this doesn't work.

It's good that you were given options and that you can conceive naturally. It's less stress on your body too.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

Only thing is IUI has low success rates even worse for my age. I guess there’s a reason they have suggested it.

Positve thoughts to you and keep away from Dr Google 🧐. Let me know how you get on xx

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

Hey lovely, hope your doing ok? X

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

Hey, unfortunately we got a BFN. I'm not sorry that we tried though. Now we are waiting for guidance on starting another cycle.

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

Oh no! I’m so sorry. How are you both doing? do you have a follow up planned?

I haven’t done IUI yet, still waiting on the clinic, seem to be spending all my time waiting for something.

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

We are ok, you come to expect bad news. We are waiting for a protocol from the clinic. It won't be the same clinic we used this time. The last they told us was that we would have a hysteroscopy after egg retrieval and a frozen transfer.

Yeah I know the feeling. We have been TTC for three years now and it's just waiting and going back to the drawing board! Let's hope that one day we will have some success!

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

Im glad you are ok 💖 I know that we expect it but it still hurts like hell.

It’s good you are trying another clinic, try something different hopefully you’ll get a different outcome 🤞🏻🌈.

I’ve been TTC for 3yrs too. I’m the wrong side of 40 aswell.

Xx

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

I really hope the IUI gives you a good outcome this time. Good people deserve a good outcome!

[Miracle43 in reply to Infragilis]

Thank you so much, I really have doubts. It’s hard to ignore the stats and what we’re told. Just have to have faith in the clinic and their advice. We all deserve a good outcome, all been through the so much, hopefully a 🌈 at the end. If you want to chat you know where I am ☺️ Xx

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

Thanks you too 😊 let me know how you get on.

It's true we can't ignore stats but if clinic say there is at least a chance it's good to try.

[Infragilis in reply to Miracle43]

Have you done the IUI?

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Schnitzel. It's hard to now what to say. Perhaps that is the one tat means business, I would like to think so. Sometimes patients switch to IUI, but at least you would know that the one you have will hopefully be fertilised. Keeping everything crossed for you. Diane

[Infragilis in reply to DianeArnold]

Thanks Diane 😊

[Bebe294]

Yes! I had around 5 bigger follies on day 7 but on day 10 & 11 they said only one seems mature and all other stopped growing. Measurements showed three days in a row they didnot change much ! So we had a big decision on trigger day of continuing toward retrieval for only one possible egg! I am happy we decided to continue because that only one became one good quality blastocyst and frozen! Very expensive frosty but worth it !

Btw, Interestingly on R day they collected 3 more eggs despite the Dr strong opinion of having only one specially bcuz estrogen wasn’t high enough for more than 1 mature egg on trigger day and they fertilized but arrested later on between day 3 and 7. So we ended up with 1 blastocyst which was ideal in our case.

[Infragilis in reply to Bebe294]

That's a good outcome for you. Thanks a lot for sharing as it's encouraging to hear positive outcomes. Wishing you the best of luck with the transfer!!!

[Bebe294 in reply to Infragilis]

Thank you I could use prays definitely as the transfer is another big challenging part for me when the time comes!I wish you all the best in what you are deciding to do . Infertility journey is a hard one with so many ups n downs and difficult and pricy decisions!! Good luck xo xo

[Infragilis in reply to Bebe294]

We went for it and got an embryo. Went ahead with the transfer (they did it on day 2). Now we are on the 2ww.

[Bebe294 in reply to Infragilis]

Ohh I am happy for you, wish you all the best for 2ww. Let us know after the test if you feel like it💖 hope u had a great Valentine’s

[Infragilis in reply to Bebe294]

Unfortunately we got a BFN. We knew those were the chances but it's still disappointing. We are waiting for guidance from our clinic to start a new cycle now.

[Bebe294 in reply to Infragilis]

Hi dear, I am so sorry to hear about this BFN. IVf is a very challenging journey and trying to keep ourselves motivated for so long is not an easy thing to do but when you are determined look at the big picture and stay positive. If you be persistent you will see the BFP and a healthy happy baby if yours hopefully soon xo

I know all this is easier to say than done but that’s the only way to get succeed, having perseverance.

I gave myself a break, not contacting the clinic for next steps bcuz I am hesitant on what I really want going forward considering all the money and energy we spent on doing 4 ivf so far and I have also challenges for doing the transfer, current conditions doesnt allow for that and we may have to go through surrogacy route which itself is a bg other story I sm not sure if I am ready to go that way soevially with COVID situation still on but when you know what you want just move forward and get some help when you need to!

I pray for you and wish you all the best xo

[Infragilis in reply to Bebe294]

We are having a month's break too and then will try another cycle. It is so much money and time! I feel like our lives have been taken over by this situation so it is good to have a break when it gets too much as there is more to life than just this journey although at times it is difficult to see that. Give yourself some time to read a bit about your options and talk it over and also have a breather from it all. It is positive that there are different options although it takes time to come to terms with using them or not using them. Do what is best for you and what you feel comfortable with. Sometime we just need some time to ourselves to be able to think and really decide what is best for the both of you. I am always here if you need to text. Wishing you all the very best as well xxx

[Bebe294 in reply to Infragilis]

Thank u for calming words . U r absolutely right but sometimes its even hard to admit what it is that you are comfortable with! There is always a risk of facing regrets in futureUnfortunately in my case I have a very limited window of time to work with if any at all I just passed my 45 birthday but DH does not seem to realize that and he is not completely on board and so makes it even more difficult to move forward!

Considering all money and Time even I sm not sure if I wanna continue honostly but cannot accept being childless either! 😣

[Bebe294]

Btw loved your ID! It’s my favorite food and I make good ones myself ☺️😜

[Infragilis in reply to Bebe294]

Thank you 😊 wish I knew how to make it 😊

[Bebe294 in reply to Infragilis]

If u want a recipe pm me 😉

[jengi]

On my first cycle, we only had one strong follicle and i went in for egg collection. They retrieved an egg! Unfortunately it was poor quality and didn't fertilise but i have no regrets. It could have been the one! I really hope yours is the lucky egg.....good luck!

[Infragilis in reply to jengi]

Thank you and wishing you all the best in your next cycle xx

[jengi in reply to Infragilis]

I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with the help of donor eggs!

[Infragilis in reply to jengi]

Oh wow, congratulations 😊 that's such positive news

[jengi in reply to Infragilis]

I won’t lie, it’s been one hell of a tough journey but so worth it. I had low AMH. Feel free to check out my profile & DM me if you want to chat about any aspects of my journey. More than happy to share experiences if you’d find that helpful. Of course I totally respect all our journeys are unique. Big hugs Xx

[Infragilis in reply to jengi]

Thank you, yes this is a difficult journey. We got a BFN so waiting for guidance now on starting a new cycle.

[jengi in reply to Infragilis]

I'm so sorry, BFN are tough. Take care of yourself and each other. Do something nice for yourself. You've done so well to get this far, stay focused on your dream and one day you will get there, perhaps not by the path you'd hoped, but if you are determined enough you will be a mum. Once you speak to your team and have a new plan in place, hopefully you will feel more positive. Big hugs Xx

[Infragilis in reply to jengi]

Hi Jengi, the clinic said to wait one month and we will start a new cycle then. I will be doing a hysteroscopy after the egg retrieval and then a frozen transfer the month after (if we get any eggs). Currently considering whether to have the Covid vaccine as well. Covid makes this journey even more difficult! Thank you for your kind words I hope you are doing well.

[jengi in reply to Infragilis]

I hope you feel a bit better now that you have a plan in place. Best of luck with making the decision about the vaccine. Its definitely worth seriously considering getting it as they are not advising it in pregnancy or during breast feeding. I’ve been self isolating since Christmas to avoid catching it as current evidence suggests women 28+ weeks pregnant are at higher risk of more severe illness if they get Covid & of preterm birth. The risk is minimal before 28 weeks. It’d just be one less thing to worry about when you become pregnant. gov.uk/government/publicati...

Good luck Xx 🤞🏻

[Infragilis in reply to jengi]

We have decided to get the vaccine. Hopefully it doesn't do any harm 🤞 the self isolating will all be worth it for sure 😊

[jengi in reply to Infragilis]

That’s great. It shouldn’t do any harm, they wouldn’t give it to you if there any serious risks. It’s the best decision.

[Lenni222]

Hi Schnitzel...I have just had my egg collection (friday).and only had 2 viable follicles, the rest I were told were incredibly small. This is our 3rd round and I got the best result so far 18 eggs retrieved of which 15 were mature enough. (I'm 40 so pretty good) Previously a much higher number of follicles but they were poor egg quality. My clinic were leaning towards me leaving this cycle altogether and trying again but this will more than likely be our last attempt with my own eggs so I went ahead and I'm glad I did. I have my transfer booked in for weds and fingers crossed everything is going much better than before. Trust your instincts and go with whatever you feel is best. Quality over quantity .Sending love x

[Infragilis]

It's true you did right going ahead. A big good luck for tomorrow, two is great! We went ahead with it and I'm one week into two week wait. I don't have high hopes as I'm feeling like PMS is setting in 😊

[Butterfly83000]

Hi Schnitzel. I was going through the same maybe had Max 5 on bad cycles 2.but did you consider doing timed intercourse? If on his side the sperm is good? Best of luck 🍀

[Infragilis in reply to Butterfly83000]

Hi, we have issues from both ends so IVF is our only option unfortunately. We just got a BFN and will be starting yet another cycle. This time they will do a hysteroscopy and frozen transfer if we get any embryos.