OTD & BFN 💔

[Millbanks]

Yesterday was my official test day and unfortunately it’s another negative for us. Gutted but not surprised as we knew this was a long shot. We have our new transfer windows due to our ERA results so hoping to give that a go with 2 frosties in January.

Does anyone have any positive stories of success after ERA timing change for me? It’ll be our 5th transfer so really hoping our luck will change...

Wishing all of you in the 2WW lots of luck and sending lots of love to those of us who have had BFNs recently. It’s a tough time of year to be going through this. 💪🏼 💖 xx

[Tugsgirl]

No advice but wishing you luck in the new year xx

[Millbanks in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you 💖 xx

[Beatrix_K]

Hey Millbanks just wanted to send you some big hugs and strength. You’re due some luck and I hope that next year you can cash in on it. Hope you can now relax a little with a lovely bottle of wine and nice food. Xxxx

[Millbanks in reply to Beatrix_K]

Thanks lovely. I feel like we are due some luck but I know it doesn’t work like that 😔 fingers crossed hey! Wishing lots of luck to you too xxx

[Cinderella5]

Just wanted to send you hugs today, its a sh!tty time!! Obviously you know our pregnancy is from using our ERA protocol and I can remember a few others that it has helped along the way too so hoping its he way forward for you.xx

[Millbanks in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you gorge, you’ve been a great support 💖 I am indeed buoyed up by your pregnancy! Fingers crossed. Xxx

[Hidden]

Im so sorry Millbanks. This just never gets easy and every bfn is as hard as the other. So i hope you take a good care of yourself and take some time. I have everything crossed for January x x x

[Millbanks in reply to Hidden]

Thanks lovely, I hope you get your cycle sorted out. I was taking B6 which really helped my luteal phase. Xx

[Lots8788]

Lots of love and hugs hun and inbox is open if you want to chat xxx

[Millbanks in reply to Lots8788]

Thank you. And you too. We will get there!!! Xxx

[PenguinBlue]

I’m so sorry to hear this Millbanks! I hope you’re able to enjoy the festive period knowing you’ve got your ERA cycle in Jan! I’ve definitely heard of positive stories following ERA so pray this will be the one for you! Wishing you a wonderful festive period xxx

[Millbanks in reply to PenguinBlue]

Thank you lovely, I think so too. Everything crossed. Sending lots of luck to you too. Xxx

[Sparklylife]

Oh I am sorry Millbanks! 😔I am sure it does not make this any easier for you to deal with, but I wish you all the best with your ERA cycle in January too and hope by correcting that it will work for you 🧡🤞

[Hidden]

So sorry just seen this. Sending you the biggest hug and hope next year is your year xx

[Purpledoggy]

So sorry lovely, I was so hoping this would be your one. A crappy end to a crappy year but here's to a fabulous fertile 2021 for us all xx

[Lisichka]

Gutted about BFN, it’s never easy to face them even if you were prepared.I had ERA done and transfer #5 worked! It’ll be the one, I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you. Enjoy the holidays and do your FET in the new year xx

[Millbanks in reply to Lisichka]

That’s so brilliant to hear. Really pleased for you and hoping it’ll be the one for me too xxx

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry lovely. It’s a shit thing to happen and an even shitter time for it to happen. Sending hugs and strength, and hoping next year brings you better things xx

[Millbanks in reply to Solly-44]

Thanks Solly, yea it’s pretty shit but I’ll be ok. Bring on number 5! Hope you’re doing well xxx

[Fertilityjourney]

So sorry to hear this. Take care. Xx

[Millbanks in reply to Fertilityjourney]

💖

[Bluelady-sing]

Merry Xmas what's ERA

[Peanutchips]

I’m so so sorry Millbanks. This journey is so tough and so unfair. I’m really hopeful for you that a change in protocol based on your ERA results will be the answer. Have they said how long you need to wait for a FET? Sending hugs and strength. Take it easy lovely xxx

[Millbanks in reply to Peanutchips]

Thanks lovely, such a f****r - but I made up for it (kind of) with lots of champagne and cheese. Fortunately we can start our next FET with my January period. Currently feeling a bit wobbly about going again but I’m sure by then I’ll be ok. Lots of love to you too xxxx

[Maisie234]

I'm so sorry to read this. I was really hoping that this was it for you. I'm sure next time will be it. You've done everything you can now, positive thoughts to you. Take it easy just now. Xx

[Millbanks in reply to Maisie234]

Thanks sweets, me too! 💔I really hope so. The hoping it what makes it so hard but I’m sure we’ll get there. Lots of love to you too xxx

[RhinoCat]

Love and hugs 💐🎄

[Millbanks in reply to RhinoCat]

And to you xxx

[Chel91]

Sorry just seen this. I'm so so gutted for you lovely. Was hoping for good news for you, it's all so unfair 😔 Sending you loads of hugs, stay strong hun 💗xx

[Millbanks in reply to Chel91]

Thanks Chel, yea it’s sucks. Am sick of it to be honest. I just want to think about something else. Imagine just being able to go on holiday!! Hope you’re doing ok and gearing up for your next cycle xxx

[Khess124]

So sorry to be reading this 💔 xx

[F_J_762301]

So sorry to hear this. Its so rubbish having failure after failure, it really kicks you in the gut like nothing else. I always think..surely it must be my turn, surely I must be due a bit of luck! Unfortunately it doesnt work like that. Hope you are enjoying some treats over the festive period.

I am having a FET in January with my new extra progesterone protocol (just an extra 12 hours for me) so here's hoping these tweaks will make a difference for us xx

[Millbanks in reply to F_J_762301]

It really is a kick in the gut - you’re right!

That’s great! Really hoping these changes help us both. I’m so scared that it won’t make any difference and my hope will be gone. Urgh xxxx

[F_J_762301 in reply to Millbanks]

I know what you mean. I am at the point now where I am almost too scared to hope. I have been devastated by disappointment so many times. But I am beginning this process again with an open mind, taking one day at a time and not being too hard on myself, all things I have learned along the way xx

[Millbanks in reply to F_J_762301]

That’s really brave. I am going to take your advice xxx

[hifer]

So tough and so sorry. I’m your ERA buddy lovely so I’ll keep you posted! Sending loads of love xx

[Millbanks in reply to hifer]

Aww yes I really hope it’s the one for us!! When is your transfer planned for? Xxx

[hifer in reply to Millbanks]

Not sure but I started meds today so a few weeks yet. Sending loads of love. I went through a failed transfer just before our ERA and I’ve already had a failed transfer in Jan. I know the feeling of a BFN all too well. So sorry you’re going through this and everything crossed for your new protocol xx

[Millbanks in reply to hifer]

Sending all my love to you too. Everything crossed!! Looks like I’ll be a few weeks behind you as it’ll be my next cycle towards the 3rd week in Jan xxx

[hifer in reply to Millbanks]

Will be thinking of you too xx

[ILHB]

It’s so tough. I had a BFN today. Don’t think it’s sunk in yet. Thinking of you and sending a big hug ❤️ Xx

[Millbanks in reply to ILHB]

I’m so sorry lovely. It’s heartbreaking 💔

It takes some time doesn’t it... but you will be ok. Sending lots of love to you too xxx